(JOKE) Aim center mass.

Shoot
Shovel
Shut up.

Short of the joke, go to the courts and explain (get a lawyer) and continue the "fun"

Or do like I would do and move.

Is the stress really worth it for a house with a ***** neighbor?

quote Originally posted by User00013170: I might have said it before, but you are a better man than a lot of us here. I know i would not have put up with it this long. It would have ended long ago. And it wouldn't have been pretty.

Thanks for the compliment. I really have one goal....my Son. It is even the thought of being imprisoned, and losing any moment with him that keeps me level.

More venting tomorrow ...

Tony

i see this was brought up earlier, and i know its long overdue but, privacy fence? wouldnt have to see or react to them, come and go as you please in your yard, if he comes over it he's trespassing, if he comes or looks around it he's stalking you..

Glad to hear that this PPO is over tomorrow!! I really hope that things go in your direction this time, I don't know why they wouldn't before... Definitely keep us informed. Keep your head up! You are doing a great job at it, I know Benjamin will appreciate it when he's older

quote Originally posted by Tony Kania: Thanks for the compliment. I really have one goal....my Son. It is even the thought of being imprisoned, and losing any moment with him that keeps me level. More venting tomorrow ... Tony

Oh, id have found other ways around it that didn't involve imprisonment ( for me ). that would be a last resort.

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quote Originally posted by User00013170: Not so sure about that, as it was shown that Google taking pictures over fences was not invasion. So i'm sure he could get away with it too.

maybe so, but it would be pretty odd of him to be standing on a ladder taking pictures over an 8 foot fence

quote Originally posted by Tony Kania: Well, 2 more days until I am free at last!

Glad you will be rid of the problem.
You'll be moving?

It is stipulated that I am not allowed to record, photograph, or use ANY means of electronic devices to capture him. (I never have, but OK? ) Needless to say, he has used that to circumvent the law, and destroy several of my things over the past year. (See thread.) I do have a camera system, and I mearly need to plug it in at this point. I haven't even tested it out of RESPECT for the laws. Tomorrow morning though... things change.

I feel the need to reitterate here. I have NEVER done ANYTHING to this family. Nothing.

I really do appreciate all of the suppport. From you folks, my neighbors, and family. A lot of great advice has been given. And some dumb advice also. But, in the end, it is about how I handle this. And handle this I will.

Thanks again for letting me use this venue as a means to become a better man. So often I have tried to help others. It is nice to get back.

Tony

quote Originally posted by Tony Kania: It is stipulated that I am not allowed to record, photograph, or use ANY means of electronic devices to capture him... Tony

Thats odd, wonder why.

quote Originally posted by 2.5: Thats odd, wonder why.

I am not sure, but it is written in the documents on page two of this thread. Irregardless, I have accepted the courts decisions, and have done nothing but comply.

I have been advised what to do, and what not to do. I will heed that advice strongly.

As far as a fence goes, it is not going to happen. Our yard is very private. It would ruin the theme, and degrade the views. Besides, a fence would not stop this guy. His antics take place in the front yard.

When I say, "tomorrow things change", I mean that I will feel relieved about my court order. A stress that I should have NEVER endured. But, crying about life will not make time reverse. I understand this.

As always, thanks for the advice. Many of you are exactly what I need. The voice of reason.

Tony

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I has been served! Frivilous crap.

Updates after June 20th.

Tony Kania

Let's guess. Either it's a BS lawsuit, or he wants the PPO extended?

You've done well this far. Remember: DON'T PLAY HIS GAME! Make him play Tony's game. We haven't heard of any problems with Amy's Dad lately, have we?

If he wants the PPO extended, demand that BOTH parties submit to Psycological testing. (When we sued for custody of my wife's son, all parties had to go through that. Guess which side passed?) "Volunteer" to submit yourself. And, as an afterthought, him too.

If it's a lawsuit, you have no choice but to lawyer up. Step 2 in that process is to file counter-suits to make you an extremely unattractive target for litigation. Include his parents, they're enabling him if not aiding and abetting. If half of what you've said here is provable in court, you won't have neighbors for long. Because you'll own their house!

Just left court. The case is settled in my favor. I am ordered not to say anything more. I am happy with all outcomes. Thank you for your patience.

Tony Kania

"And there was much rejoicing"

Good news, man...