Tony, You should keep your camera outside with you. When they come out take your pictures, then you should in turn take theirs. Maybe they'll stop?

quote Originally posted by Arizona85GT: Tony, You should keep your camera outside with you. When they come out take your pictures, then you should in turn take theirs. Maybe they'll stop?

Hell yeah! I want to see pictures of this guy taking the pictures.

Tony, I've never met your neighbor. but with the recent events, this is how i would picture him to be.

Oh Mr. Bean...how I love you lol. Who knew a guy who couldn't talk would be so funny!?

quote Originally posted by Tony Kania: NEWS UPDATE... The neighbor is a Pennocks lurker.

quote Originally posted by Firefox: Start taking pictures of him and his picture taking. Whenever you see him taking pictures you take your own. Since he's screwed up in the head anyway it might freak him out.

Yeah Tony, take some pictures of this disturbed freak and post them here for all of us to see. You wouldn't be breaking any laws, and we'd get a chance to direct some comments his way. Could be entertaining.

Been to Tony's many a time now. Haven't ever really seen the guy until today.
Tightening screw, look at Tony and see him beaming at something, turn and see bizarre guy in car lowering something quickly (camera) and then driving off.

The mask he has is awesome though.

If Tony didn't live right next door my friends and I deal with people like this in a very certain and point making way. Tony is too close though damn.

Tony, it saddens me to hear all this. I use the word "all" as it seems the totality of events has you down in the dumps.
Break it down to individual issues and make efforts to work on them and cope that way. Do the best you can on each of them and call whatever results good. They can be made better later, if they need to be.
The father in law. I do not have any idea why he has issues with you but, if you have been reasonable, your wife should forsake him for you. It might seem hard for her to fathom that but when two marry, they become one. She should be the one to put him in his place. If she has not, nor will not, cut the apron strings so to speak, you married the wrong gal. Perhaps a move would be in the best interest.
The neighbor. frack him. Don't pay him no mind. As simple as that. Let him take all the pictures that he wants to. Sounds like he knows he is getting to you by pushing your buttons. He will quit once that novelty goes away. Another thought. Maybe your father in law is enlisting his help. As far as the court snafu, blow it off. Big deal, he has a PPO against you.
Your bills. We all have financial spurts of different directions through our lives. Just as sure as stock prices rise/fall/rise/fall. Just ride the waves. We get good at it.
I look back at the more difficult times of my life, financial or otherwise, and realize now that they weren't that bad. From being raised in foster care, not getting a high school diploma, to being homeless, jobless, without a car, to whatever. I always made it through and actually prospered. You will too.
Issues between you and Amy, will have to include her willingness and desire. If she is unwilling and has no desire, there is not much you can do about it. I can not offer any help as I know no details. It would seem impossible with her Dad swaying away. If that is the case, she has to deal with that.
My best to you. I have always liked 'ya. You will get through this.
One more thing, the sale of a Fiero will not bring much financial gain in the grand scheme of things. You are gonna need good transportation and, to me, a Fiero can be theraputic.

This is Paul's PPO against me. I lost on June 8th. After many years of this guy telling me where to put my snow, how to cut my lawn, I finally broke, and yelled at him in May. I will post the recording that he took of me after I am able to get all of the evidence from the courts. I AM NOT GUILTY OF EVER HARRASSING THIS TURD!. Period. Paul suffers from some form of mental disability, and after living under his mom's roof for his entire life, I sseem to be the new thing for his time. No friends. No family ever comes to visitt this guy. And yes, he really does look like Mr. Been.

More will follow. I have to stay 25 feet from him. He will stop me from walking my newborn around the yard by standing on the fence. Very few of our neighbors know what this family looks like. They never leave, and actually had the audacity to say that they are in fear of their lives, the reason for not leaving the house. I have letters from EVERY other neighbor as to my charachter, but I lost the case due to my minute and a half tirade. I am recorded at every step outside. There are cameras in trees, in his hand, and even when I am with my son. I even cannot have Fiero related folks come over.

I am NOT allowed to take pictures if he is in the area. (My son will have a birthday party in a few months. His first. He told the officers that he would not allow me to take pictures that day, and that others have to. If they see a camera in my hands, on my SONS BIRTHDAY, then they are calling the cops. )

EVERYTIME that I go outside, he is there. If I open the garage, he is there. Backyard? He is there. The claim fear for their lives, but the mom and dad will even stand there with a camera. Just ridiculous.

Thanks for the advice, and please, keep it coming.

Tony

I will post up the rest, even their recordings of me when I get it back from the courts.

I am not hearing things. My dogs do not talk to me and tell me to kill him. I do not enter their home at night. I have NEVER murdered anyone. All things in this paperwork that he filed against me. I have told him that I would smoke him, but only after we were discussing the law. He told the courts that my intentions are to kill him, and that this PPO would make it worse. Well, right after the court case, they started to go balls out, and harrass me. Read on...

Tony, I am sorry to hear of your continuing difficulties. I wish you the best.

I do have to ask, though ... where is your attorney in all of this? You can rail all you want on an Internet car forum, but you have a serious legal problem and you need to deal with it through the legal system. If you represented yourself at the hearing, it is no wonder that you are where you are now. You may say "I shouldn't need a lawyer," but the fact is you do.

Be aware that your "minute and a half tirade" cannot just be explained away or ignored by the Court. You are now in the position of having to prove to the Court that you are a stable personality and not a threat to your neighbor(s). To do that you may have to submit to mediation, psychological evaluation, and/or anger management counseling. Bottom line, you may have to choose what is more important to you ... being right or being with Amy and your son.

I would also respectfully suggest that you (and Amy, if she will join you) seek some counseling on your own. There are almost certainly possibilities that you can't even see now. You don't have to live like this.

quote From the Complaint: "... I live with my parents because of an egregious medical misdiagnosis."

WTF??? A competent attorney would have a field day with that tidbit. Along with good references from your neighbors, it alone could be enough to discredit virtually anything he says.

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I find it interesting that he lives with his parents BECAUSE of an "egregious misdiagnosis."

What exactly does that mean? You can diagnose anyone you want, with anything you want... as long as it actually IS a misdiagnosis, you should be able to live anywhere you want, and get any job you want. If he can write letters and physically take out the trash, I see no reason why he HAS to live with his parents.

Sorry to hear this Tony. Keep your chin up. Take care of yourself. Keep in touch with the forum. You'll be in my prayers.

Well, spoke with a few attorneys this morning. Pretty much just need to be compliant with the orders. I know that he reads this forum, and I am ok with that. He can feel free to read whatever he wants. What he cannot do, is harrass me. This constant picture taking needs to stop. The parents put an order against me on June 1st. The judge found nothing in their order that concerns me, so no big deal there. The son's order came on Friday, June 3rd. My case was on June 8th at 9 am. I should have asked for a continuance, but that has passed. I also cannot appeal the order, seeing on how it has been past 30 days. What I can, and will do, is file my own harrassment order against him.

I just spoke with the community police. I went to the Cop Shop, and relayed what is happening. The officer who originally handed me Paul's PPO, was absolutely awesome. He can see what is happening, and has even discussed it with other officers. They believe me, and my family, but Paul is supersceding the system, and knows just what to say/do. But, by him purposely taking pics of my son, that gives me the ammo to file. The officer said, "If you and Amy are in fear for your son...you need to get an order against him." Such will be done. On Thursday, I will grab the evidence that the courts hold, and let you folks have at it. All of this is public record, and there is nothing that he can do about me posting this.

During the court proceedinggs, the family actually asked the courts that I have no contact with the rest of my neighbors. The judge just told them no.

The judge also asked what Paul's egrgious medical misdiagnosis was, and he would not initally tell the courts. Stating that he does not want Tony to know. The judge asked him to write it down, and he wrote down nerves?! The judge then ordered him to write down the diagnosis, and he still did not want to tell the courts. Finally, after several attempts from the judge, he complied. I was not able to see the writings, and feel that I should get to know everything that involves this case? Am I wrong?

Tony

He has filed a temporary order of protection. When does it expire? Can he turn it into a permanent one? Make sure you file one against him for twice the distance if possible. Tell the court that you fear for your child's safety because he has been taking pictures. Has he made any lewd gestures? If he has, be sure to mention it. This is a disturbed individual. He needs to submit proof of any diagnosis from his doctor for the courts to accept it or it never happened. You could submit affidavits from your parents testifying that they never beat you or each other as he has alledged. Your lawyer should be helping you show the court that this person is a liar and is manipulating the legal system for his own gains. You can also get your neighbors to testify about your character and his.
I suggest you put up a privacy fence, if you can, between your residence and his. He won't be able to spy on you as easily then. You should also refrain from any contact with him. If he is causing you problems call the police and let them handle him.

quote Originally posted by avengador1: I suggest you put up a privacy fence, if you can, between your residence and his. He won't be able to spy on you as easily then. You should also refrain from any contact with him. If he is causing you problems call the police and let them handle him.

Good advice IMO.

Some people get joy in seeing others bothered by their actions (look at some of what goes on here in the forum), take away the pleasure he gets to any reaction to it (not that it's easy I'm sure) and maybe he will refrain from doing such things. Big maybe I'll bet.

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quote Originally posted by Tony Kania: I am recorded at every step outside. There are cameras in trees, in his hand, and even when I am with my son. I even cannot have Fiero related folks come over. I am NOT allowed to take pictures if he is in the area. (My son will have a birthday party in a few months. His first. He told the officers that he would not allow me to take pictures that day, and that others have to. If they see a camera in my hands, on my SONS BIRTHDAY, then they are calling the cops. )

How can they keep you from taking pictures, especially if they're not in them? What the #$*& happened to your Constitutional rights?

And if he's doing this with all of the cameras pointed at your property, that's pretty stalkerish. Maybe you should speak with a lawyer who specializes in this type of thing, but the creep doesn't need to be recording you, especially when you're with your young children.

The PPO expires on June 8th 2012. He had asked the courts to make it permanant, but was granted one year. I will not, and have not even looked his way. I will continue to obey the courts.

The picture thing gets me. I cannot, and because of this, he does. Cameras in trees, and all is just too much. I do understand his right to film, but if he is following me around, then I just don't see that as legal. Paparazzi?! I always wanted to be famous.

Our local Crime Check has informed me to continue to call if he is purposely stalking me. I will, and they will document it.

He is getting a ton of pleasure out of this. Laughs and points the camera. Just sick. A month ago the mom had an anxiety attack in court, and had asked the judge to "hurry up so that I can get my medicine for the anxiety that Tony Kania has caused me." Tom, the father claims his heart condition on me. Nearing 80, I am sure that it is my fault.

I threw Paul out of my garage several years ago. Not physically, but verbally. He mentioned that "I wished that my parents were dead. That way I can get the house!" (Not verbatum.) Quite literally, since then, it has been "on". Tom came by a month later, and threatened to call the cops the next time that I beat Amy?! Well, I HAVE NEVER HIT A WOMAN. (I did punch a hoe for throwing her baby across a room while she was drunk. Long story, but it has been documented here.) Tom likes his liquor, and happened to be a bit tipsey that day. I told that to the courts, and he said"I DON"T DRINK!" Then Betty said, "He has a few after dinner, but he NEVER gets drunk."

Neighbor boy had parked his 1976 Mercury in front of our house a few years back. After a few weeks, i had asked him to put it back in front of his house. He told me that his parents did not want it there, and he can legally park it here. "Well, ok, move your car." More of Paul saying that I had threatened to "kill" him. Move your car sounds nothing like I will kill you?

Paul has been told not to cut my lawn. He just goes and does it anyway? He has been told not to blow my snow. He does it anyways. I give everything that I can to my other neighbors. An elderly couple across the street gets a lot of my charity. I do their snow for free, and Nini often has us over for dinner, or will make a cake for us. Just really great people. Paul had actually told me that he gets paid for their snow, and I need to immediately stop? More . Last August, we sat at Hussan and Nini's table with the Purketts. They told the courts that they have been in fear for their lives since I moved here?

Like I have told every officer, I am not attacking this turd. I am living my life, and his "obsession" with me is his deal. Leave me out of it. Reading the PPO and Paul's writings, make me look like a killer, stalker, and inhuman. We believe that his "obsession" with me are taking over his life. He writes that "one usually murders the object of their obsession." I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS LOSER.

My PPO states that I need to stay 25' from Paul. I am unable to take pictures of him, his family, or their property. in other words, I can take pics of my son, but am limited as to where,when, and how by what this turd decides.

I know that he is reading this, and following me onto this forum IS harrassment. This is where I play. This is wehre I made friendships. This is my home, and following me into my home is not a good idea. He told the courts that he feels that if I get the chance, I would kill him. Well, if he is so afraid, then what is it with coming out and getting as close to me as he can. (I have had to leave my property, and go to another area because of him just standing on the property line.

My car... I don't know about you, but when I spend crazy hours to shine my AWARD WINNING FIERO, and they adjust theor sprinklers to spray 20 plus feet onto my property to purposely hit my car, then that is destruction of property. When I polish up my Frod truck, and you turn the sprinklers on AGAIN several hours later, then you are destroying my property. Yeah, just water, but that hard water cut into my paint, rims, and new, fresh unwaxed paint on my nose cone, then you have destroyed my property. Even after having been told to stay off of my property by officers, Tom was caught pearing into my truck to inspect the damage. I just happened to be walking out of the house when I caught him. He two stepped back to his property, and began to tell me how a little water is not going to harm your truck. I never spoke a word, even though legally I can.

Lawncare... If I am out cutting my lawn, they are there. I have had to stop cutting, do something else, and go back after they tired of waiting for me to come back.

More to follow...

Tony

I agree that filing your own PPO is a good idea.
Have you thought about suing him for libel?

Almost forgot, my order...






Thanks once again for letting me vent, and for ALL of the advice. I know a public forum is not the best place to do this, but many of you are my friends, and I seek the advice of that friendship. This is my home, and I belong here. Thank you for letting me be me.

Tony

Tony:

I can only imagine how frustrating things must be. I would have a hard time showing the restraint that you have been able to summon.

If your ever up this way for a vacation let me know, you could hang out here for a while.

Nolan

Yes Tony, for all that is going on with your life, you are doing great at not letting things get to you with this guy. I may not know you as well as others, and I am new here, but the forum is always a great place to ask for advice, especially from friends, on anything and everything.

I hope all works out in the best for you.

Step #1 Really tall privacy fence between the houses.
Step #2 PPO for twice the distance, in your sons name for the harassment.
Step #3 will be in a PM after this. a small way you can nail him for 15years minimum.
Step #4 If all else fails. Call the police next time he tries crap with the sprinkler and demand he be charged with "destruction of private property" Mold could happen to show up in your car because of him. He's then liable for the cost of the vehicle.
Step #5 Start a civil suit for pain and suffering, harassment, disorderly conduct and time spent appeasing him. Also include the police department in your suit since they have been witness and done nothing to uphold the law.

Just by reading this he has broken a few laws that i can see. A private detective could get evidence of it all. Then the lawyer gets your order removed, get the police to do their job and you wont have to look at this guy for at least 10 years.

In NY if somebody files a false court document (ie your current ppo) It's considered filing a false report and he could spend 5 years in jail AND get nailed for all of the court costs so far? I did it to somebody for filing a false report. they got 7 years and $250,000 fine.

Finally...PM replied to.

FireGirl...You are definately proving to be a great voice of reason here in the Inland Northwest. Nice to have you around. (Who else is going to keep Shill in line? )

Nolan...I absolutely cannot wait to shake your hand. (Saw your car at Joe's the other day. First class job is being done by Fieroking, and you should be very comfortable with the results. And no, I did not eat your suspension. ))

Raydar...You always extend your hand. Thank you...

To everyone else... THANK YOU!

So many things to do. Since I mentioned that he reads this forum, he has been mysteriously quiet. I did get the pictures from the garage window yesterday evening when taking out the garbage, but that was it. Oh, there is no way that this little man can stop, but I am betting that reading all of these responses are starting to get to him. I don't know, or even care about his issues with life. He is taking time away from my newborn, and I truely believe that he has woken a giant. I am unrelentless, and If he wants me to be "obsesses" with him, then so be it. The law is involved, and he is playing them against me. EVERY officer that I have spoken with feels sorry for this situation that this neighbor has bestowed upon me, and surely his false reporting will catch up to him.

I have already changed my life enough because of this mooch. At 50 plus years old, collecting money from the state for an"egreggious medical misdiagnosis", living with mommy and daddy, not having to even cut his own lawn, a maid comes in weekly, he owns no cars, wears tattered clothing, looks like Mr. Bean with a severe hangover, claims to be a "published microbiologist", and is now frackin' with me.... I would say that the diagnosis was spot on.

I want to stress to anyone reading this (wink)... I bought my own 1997 Ford F150. I paid cash. I did not have Amy buy it for me. I bought my 1987 award winning Fiero for cash also. Amy did not buy it for me. I paid for my 68 Alpha in cash. Amy did not buy that for me. Whatever I own, I paid for. Whatever anyone sees me driving in, I paid for. Amy's car, well she bought that for cash herself on my recommendations. And the deal that we got on a $63,000 car was a great one. I am pretty damn sure that when my neighbor was asking Amy out before I came into the picture, she turned down all of his requests. All of them! And when my neighbor watches Amy and I in the hot tub, then he can feel free to stand at his sink peeling carrots as much as he wants. I like an audience, and that never stopped me before. (I don't think that he believes that we could see him there in the darkness.)

More later. I still need to grab the evidence for my June 8th case, and will follow up with more required reading.

Tony

Once again, thanks forum. You rock!

Tony, read through the entire thread. .. wow..

Just my 2 c.. It looks like you've got a good handle on things right now..

But.. Do not go to court without a lawyer. You've admitted you get rattled and disjointed when upset/depressed.. Get a lawyer to speak for you to protect your interests.
Yes it might cost a little more, but I'm also willing to bet like most lawyers they have a PI on retainer that can do the ground work of speaking with neighbors and the like to show that your neighbor is actually the one causing the issues.

Best of luck.

In most states you can call the disability department and let them know he's not showing the signs he says he has on a daily basis. They will do the investigation for you. end of benefits. no more neighbor.

quote Originally posted by Uaana: But.. Do not go to court without a lawyer. .

Yep, the advice that I should have taken a month and a half ago. But, excellent advice, and a very big lesson learned. Representation will be taken care of.

Tony

Finally... Hmm? Perhaps this does need to be stepped up. I am most worried about his fictiscious assesment of my "obsession" with him. By him claiming that the"person usually kills the object of their obsession", has me worried for my family. I am sure that he does not have a gun, but when you are a small a person as he is, mentally and physically, you find means to an end.

This is just a hiccup in life. All be it a rather disturbing one, but just a hiccup none the less. In the larger scale of life, Benjamin is now my sole purpose for being. I need to keep that in perspective.

Thank you,

Tony

I still think you should move. Take your family and go somewhere better. If he wants you out of his life and you want him out of yours, finding a different place to live is a good idea. I know it shouldn't have to be that way, and I know it doesn't solve every problem, but in this very specific case, you would be helping you AND him out by just getting out of the situation geographically.

If your wife gets a PPO in your sons and her name for twice the distance of the one you have against you. he can not stop you from going anywhere and he would be in violation if he gets too close. Also she can add a no photography clause for the baby. The flash can be deemed harmful to his eyes. Child endangerment laws do apply here as well.

If he tries to get a PPO from a child he will be laughed out of court. Maybe even "looked at" by their psych ward.

Thanks for the PM Dave.

Folks, Hassan and Nini, the neighbors across the street, and wonderful people, spoke with the purketts earlier. Nini keeps seeing paul taking pics, and asked them, (In a deep Persian accent) "Why you take pics of Tony and his Baby?" There answer is that they are NOT taking pics, and paul is using the camera as a defense against any probable actions to "kill" paul. That is funny, because just the other day, paul, tom, and betty showed the pics to the officers that came to our homes.

I got some things planned here tomorrow, and will post up after. I plan on getting the evidence that was submitted against me, and have absolutely no issues with sharing it with you folks.

Tony

quote Originally posted by Tony Kania: I am pretty damn sure that when my neighbor was asking Amy out before I came into the picture, she turned down all of his requests. All of them! And when my neighbor watches Amy and I in the hot tub, then he can feel free to stand at his sink peeling carrots as much as he wants.

There, in a nutshell, is the root of your whole problem, I'm betting. Jealousy.....

No problem Tony... let me know if that becomes an option. I hope this works out for you peacefully though.

Maybe the numb nuts will get the hint you wanna be peaceful and he's the cause of the issues.

BTW: Talked to my cousin who is a DA in Mass. She said... "If he has any health issues brought on by his neighbors actions, his neighbor is now liable for all hospital costs and any other cost that may come in conjunction of such harassment. Such as, lost wages, inability to work, fear of leaving the house etc etc." "If he has to be rushed to the hospital due to being startled by the flash and doesn't make it back home. his neighbor can be held on involuntary manslaughter charges." She did also say your state may be different but most states are the same with these things.

Considering your health condition.... i would be worried if i were him. He's playing with fire.

By the way she said... if you drop your son from being startled he can be charged with endangering the welfare of a minor. thin ice man... thin ice. I would not want to be in his shoes.

PM Sent.

1. Get notarized forms from all the neighbors you can describing your "normal", non-violent behavior.

2. Did you Install those tiny security camera's I sent you. The ones to protect your property, make sure they can see to the property line to protect your vehicles. It would take someone really looking to see them.

3. That really good PI we talked about should already bee there, he was expensive, and said he could "document" their actions without them ever seeing him.

4. Where is the fund for the lawyer? We can all chip in. I'm thinking you need a "Matlock" to make sure you are treated fairly in all this, and get back everything that can be paid back.

Brad

quote Originally posted by twofatguys: 4. Where is the fund for the lawyer? We can all chip in. I'm thinking you need a "Matlock" to make sure you are treated fairly in all this, and get back everything that can be paid back. Brad

I would absolutely not accept a single nickle from this wonderful forum. If anything, we should buy Cliff another train ticket.

Tony

So sorry this is happening to you Tony.

To the neighbor who is reading this.

DON'T YOU REALIZE YOU ARE HURTING THE LITTLE BOY??? THE MAN WANTS TO HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS SON, AND YOU'RE SUCH ASSHOLES THAT YOU CAN'T LET HIM. WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU???? THINK OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO THAT LITTLE BOY. HE CAN'T EVEN GO OUT IN THE YARD TO PLAY WITH HIS DAD WITHOUT HIS DAD BEING HARASSED. SHAME ON YOU!!! GROW UP AND WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF INSTEAD OF YOUR NEIGHBOR AND WHAT HE'S DOING.

Best of luck to you Tony. I hope everything gets cleared up.

Dar

Well said Dar.

Any news? Updates?

Sorry i'm itching to make that call.

quote Originally posted by fierogirls-mom: So sorry this is happening to you Tony. To the neighbor who is reading this. DON'T YOU REALIZE YOU ARE HURTING THE LITTLE BOY??? THE MAN WANTS TO HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS SON, AND YOU'RE SUCH ASSHOLES THAT YOU CAN'T LET HIM. WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU???? THINK OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO THAT LITTLE BOY. HE CAN'T EVEN GO OUT IN THE YARD TO PLAY WITH HIS DAD WITHOUT HIS DAD BEING HARASSED. SHAME ON YOU!!! GROW UP AND WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF INSTEAD OF YOUR NEIGHBOR AND WHAT HE'S DOING. Best of luck to you Tony. I hope everything gets cleared up. Dar

Reprinted, I am sure it probably would not hurt for him to read it twice.

quote Originally posted by fierogirls-mom: So sorry this is happening to you Tony. To the neighbor who is reading this. DON'T YOU REALIZE YOU ARE HURTING THE LITTLE BOY??? THE MAN WANTS TO HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS SON, AND YOU'RE SUCH ASSHOLES THAT YOU CAN'T LET HIM. WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU???? THINK OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO THAT LITTLE BOY. HE CAN'T EVEN GO OUT IN THE YARD TO PLAY WITH HIS DAD WITHOUT HIS DAD BEING HARASSED. SHAME ON YOU!!! GROW UP AND WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF INSTEAD OF YOUR NEIGHBOR AND WHAT HE'S DOING. Best of luck to you Tony. I hope everything gets cleared up. Dar

I must say the same....third times a charm? Right? :P

quote Originally posted by litespd: There, in a nutshell, is the root of your whole problem, I'm betting. Jealousy.....

QFT

Well, 2 more days until I am free at last!

Over the past year, his antics have escalated. I have had my Fiero and F150 sprayed with something two weeks ago. No foul on my paint, but it did come from their yard. His 83 year old mother will call my name, then paul will take pics. I have had him call the Police on me more times than I can count. Several of those times I have been out of town. He has screamed at Amy to "get back in your f*****g house!" And, the CONSTANT picture taking. Eh? It is really the taking of pics of my 19 month old that burns my a$$, but I still obey the courts.

I went down to the Spokane County court building last week in search of all of the paperwork filed in last years case. It seems that the purkett's have EVERYTHING in their posession. All paperwork/evidence was "accidently" given to them. The courts are trying to get it back. (Yeah, um, ok.) One thing that was said by the courts, was that they do remember my case, and truly felt sorry about what had happened on June 8th of last year. While I did lose, I know it was not the fault of the court system. I am no lawyer, and I did not present my case correctly. Let's just say that I now have that issue handled.

Sorry to bring this back up, but his sickness is getting to be too much. I had a neighbor come by on Monday, and he said that paul is telling the neighbors that I beat Benjamin! Now, this isn't some run of the mill loser neighbor. This is the ex Surgeon General of Iran. I mean, really!? My Son is my entire world. You all know this. My family knows this. Amy's family knows this. And so does the rest of my neighborhood. Still, haveing those words said, really drags at my will power. It really does.

Thanks for letting me vent...

Tony

I might have said it before, but you are a better man than a lot of us here. I know i would not have put up with it this long. It would have ended long ago. And it wouldn't have been pretty.