TYVM Twofatguys. Lemme just say, everytime I see your friggin avatar I laugh and wonder, what happend to the other fat guy that was in that boat? How deep is that water?
LMAO ty for the laughs...the best medicine.
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Posts: 43235 From: Southern MN Registered: May 2007
TYVM Twofatguys. Lemme just say, everytime I see your friggin avatar I laugh and wonder, what happend to the other fat guy that was in that boat? How deep is that water?
LMAO ty for the laughs...the best medicine.
I think the same thing...My thought? He ATE him...
PORK CHOP SANDWICHES!
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84fiero123 Member
Posts: 29950 From: farmington, maine usa Registered: Oct 2004
Glad to hear she is doing good and better vibes for her and the rest of you. As the wife said, Fierowitch, we are only a couple of hours away so if we can help in anyway just say so. We would be happy to help.
Steve
------------------ Technology is great when it works, and one big pain in the ass when it doesn't Detroit iron rules all the rest are just toys.
A Pic Line goes deep into the body and is the best solution for long-term IV. There is much less chance of infections, and because some medications can cause pain, especially potassium, there is no pain with a Pic. My wife had a pic line for her 24 hour IV and it stayed in place for over 2 years before it was relocated. Regular IV's in the hand, arm, wrist, or foot can only stay for short periods of time and have the possibility of collapse. This doesn't happen with a Pic. Don't hesitate to let them install it. It's best for Brooklyn.
God Bless.
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Posts: 25557 From: Florida USA Registered: Aug 2002
Ok Ladies and Gentlemen, her for her big debut is Brooklyn Elisabeth.
I spoke with Momma, I should call her Momma Rock, and she says, "Yep, a pic is fine." Man this chick rocks. It wasn't really a discussion. It went more like..., "hey babe how do you feel about me posting a pic of Brooklyn in the forum?" To which she replied, "Yep." Momma Rocks hehe
Here she is. Her internet premier. Facebook don't even get this yet!
Shes holding on to the lines. See her left hand? Thats some deep, deep symbolism. It's like she's holding on, well actually she is.
OK enough doddling the baby...
Brooklyn is hanging tough again today. Her blood work looks good. She's up to 3.5cc's per feeding. Her feeding goes up by .5 cc's every 12 hours. She has not had a bowel movement yet that the nurses have seen. They say it is possible that she had one during birth that went undetected and she just hasn't need one yet. The nurses report hearing gurgling sound from her belly. They claim this is a great sign and her lack of bowel movement should change any day, even moment... She's eating, she's gonna poo.
Thanks again for you prayers and well wishes!
Thank you Momma Rock if you ever sit down and read this, I love you very much!!
Edit...dang typos
Man, I'm really happy to read this... I haven't been posting on here much because I just don't know what to say... but I'm really happy about the positive news...
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OMG she is so cute, nice and pink!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for thr pic ,and the update. Again if you need anything please call. Glad to help. Melanie
Remember how I said how priorities change quick...Well I love POOP. I love it, I love it, I love it!! hehe Well Brooklyns anyway! 5am this morning she finally dropped a duece. Big one. Then another and before Momma left a third poop! Thank you God for poop! srry. Pshew this is a really good sign that her intestines are functioning. This was her first official poop. huh, imagine your parents praying for you to poop!
They tried another arterial line and couldn't get it again. You could see the pained expression on Brooklyns face while they poked her. Another good sign, IMO. They can try later. They have changed her feedings to increase .5cc ever 6hrs instead of every 12hrs. They are trying to get her up to normal feedings and see how she does with it. Her billiruben (sp) is stable and the lights are off her. Ummm what else, it's so hard to remember all this, stay calm and not get choked up and at the same time have it all make sense srry.
Doc Death came in today and is real happy with her progress. Don't even get me started. I will keep my opinions to myself here
Ok more Brooklyn. She really really loves her binky! She's sucking and mouthing it like no tomorrow!! She's also a thumbsucker already!! LMAO. She's hanging tough, were optimistic. Snapped a few more pics but photobucket is really geeking our puter up. Maybe after restart i can post some.
Feels like theres only 3 elephant feet on my chest now, instead of all 4
Thanks Everyone. And remember, I love poop now
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That’s great news, her pooping. Like you said that means her insides are working right. Glad to hear she is doing good. Melanie said wait till it starts to smell, you won’t like it so much then, whew stinky.
see the little guy in my signature he is just so happy he is dancing!
Steve
------------------ Technology is great when it works, and one big pain in the ass when it doesn't Detroit iron rules all the rest are just toys.
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nitroheadz28 Member
Posts: 4774 From: Brooklyn, NY Registered: Mar 2010
Originally posted by weloveour86se: Doc Death came in today and is real happy with her progress. Don't even get me started. I will keep my opinions to myself here
You do realize, I hope, that the person you refer to so glibly as "Doc Death" has not only seen it before, he's had to live it, before. He's a human being, too. He has to live with the "what do you do when the odds of survivability are miniscule, at best" scenario on a regular basis. He had a moral, nay, human, obligation to offer you realistic options. I can all but guarantee you that he hated that moment, but he had to do it. If his manner seemed at that moment cold, then you should for just one moment understand that his manner serves as his only insulation against the deaths he has had to live through, and that you and I will not.
I wish the best for you, your wife, and your daughter. But know this -- if your daughter grows up hale, and hearty, your "Doc Death" will match your happiness with his. Because he will know that he did what he had to do (and I do guarantee you, that is not often a fun position), and that, despite all odds, a healthy child was born.
After you've had a chance to walk away from all of this, you might discover a certain amount of sympathy for him.
Next time a six-month premie- is born, it's more likely that he'll be there, than you.
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Posts: 41375 From: Carrollton GA. Out in the... country. Registered: Oct 1999
Brooklyn is a very lucky and loved child, to be born to such loving and deserving parents. Wishing and praying for the very best for all of your family!!
You do realize, I hope, that the person you refer to so glibly as "Doc Death" has not only seen it before, he's had to live it, before. He's a human being, too. He has to live with the "what do you do when the odds of survivability are miniscule, at best" scenario on a regular basis. He had a moral, nay, human, obligation to offer you realistic options. I can all but guarantee you that he hated that moment, but he had to do it. If his manner seemed at that moment cold, then you should for just one moment understand that his manner serves as his only insulation against the deaths he has had to live through, and that you and I will not.
I wish the best for you, your wife, and your daughter. But know this -- if your daughter grows up hale, and hearty, your "Doc Death" will match your happiness with his. Because he will know that he did what he had to do (and I do guarantee you, that is not often a fun position), and that, despite all odds, a healthy child was born.
After you've had a chance to walk away from all of this, you might discover a certain amount of sympathy for him.
Next time a six-month premie- is born, it's more likely that he'll be there, than you.
Yes i do realize all the above. I even asked him, "How long you been doing this?" to which he replied, "15 years" To which i said, " I couldn't do it" I, with 100% certainty, realize the gravity of the situation. I'm trying not to hold a grudge against the man that asked me if I'd like to watch my child die. I'm also trying to be sensitive, honestly. However the next time a doctor asks you, "Wanna watch you child die?" try to gauge your knee jerk reaction. I honestly don't hate or have any ill will towards the Doc. He was doing his job. I'm not without reason.
I woke up this morning at 7am to an empty bed. Momma snuck off in the wee hours to go visit Brooklyn. Theres a note she left here. Says, went to visit Brooklyn, be back before work. Love Lis. Dang Momma Rock! Don't do this to me again please!!
Edit.. Thanks again for your heart felt well wishes everyone. Every day, every second...God Bless you all
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Posts: 37848 From: Bandera, Texas, USA Registered: Jun 2003
Originally posted by Shyster: You do realize, I hope, that the person you refer to so glibly as "Doc Death" has not only seen it before, he's had to live it, before. He's a human being, too. He has to live with the "what do you do when the odds of survivability are miniscule, at best" scenario on a regular basis. He had a moral, nay, human, obligation to offer you realistic options. I can all but guarantee you that he hated that moment, but he had to do it. If his manner seemed at that moment cold, then you should for just one moment understand that his manner serves as his only insulation against the deaths he has had to live through, and that you and I will not. I wish the best for you, your wife, and your daughter. But know this -- if your daughter grows up hale, and hearty, your "Doc Death" will match your happiness with his. Because he will know that he did what he had to do (and I do guarantee you, that is not often a fun position), and that, despite all odds, a healthy child was born. After you've had a chance to walk away from all of this, you might discover a certain amount of sympathy for him. Next time a six-month premie- is born, it's more likely that he'll be there, than you.
I had been meaning to retract my earlier sentiments, thanks for the reminder.
weloveour86se, glad all is going well. Prayers still, .
Butt up trying to get her thumb in her mouth Brooklyn dropped another duece this am, down an ounce in weight. Poo weight. She's hanging in there. Her feedings are up, her Billiruben is good. Gurgling stomach. They are gonna try for a pic line again today.
I'm thinking a few Fiero Hotwheels for her to play with? Lol I really need therapy.
Edit...oh yeah did I say she really likes her Binky?
Edit edit dangit...We recieved her SS card yesterday. Guess she's legit now.
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TYVM Steve and everyone else too, even peeps that just read. Any and all positive vibes, prayers and well wishes are glady accepted, even the silent ones.
Brooklyn is hanging in there. She is up to her full feedings. 9cc every 3hrs. She's hanging tough so far. They are holding off on the pic line for now as she is doing well with her feedings. At this pint shes getting what she needs in her feedings. I got to put my hand on her and clasp her today. Preemies at this age of birth don't like to be caressed, they like to be kangaroo'd. The feeling of her moving body was incredible to say the least.
The above pic shows the monitor, upper left...it is connected to ALL the other monitors in the section. Other preemies. When another monitor goes off in another room, the one in Brooklyn's room starts going off. That way the nurse can theoretically be in two places. Great for nurses and doctors and preemies. Not so nice for Daddy tho. Every time that monitor goes "bing bing bing"...
A room with a great view. Portland Seadogs, Hadlock Field. Maybe we could come catch a game? Chill with Brooklyn and watch a ball game. That sounds great
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May 22nd, 2012
84fiero123 Member
Posts: 29950 From: farmington, maine usa Registered: Oct 2004
A room with a great view. Portland Seadogs, Hadlock Field. Maybe we could come catch a game? Chill with Brooklyn and watch a ball game. That sounds great
From that last picture it looks like she has a room just below the one I had prior to my bypass surgery. So she is at CMHC, you couldn’t ask for a better hospital and better people who really care about the people they are caring for.
The only thing I didn’t like about the hospital was the housekeeping staff they were all muslem woman.
Glad she is doing well and eating on her own.
More good vibes for her and you and mom.
Steve
------------------ Technology is great when it works, and one big pain in the ass when it doesn't Detroit iron rules all the rest are just toys.
Ok shes doing good. had a good nite and having a good day. No infections, her blood work looked good so they have her on her belly and going up on feedings.
end of text from Momma.
They did a ultrasound of her lungs and wanted to make sure she didn't have pnumonia or infection. They drew blood yesterday from her ankle. The flobot a mist, hehe, was squeezing her foot like a dang ketchup tube. Crazy her foots sooo tiny. I could see the pained expression on Brooklyns face. Sorry kiddo'. Well the blood work came back and it looks good.
Every minute, every second. Come on kid, you can do it!!
Thanks everyone for your support. Really means the world right now!!
edit, dang typo. i really should proof read...
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Prayers for you and your family. I am very happy to see Brooklyn doing well. God has a plan for her. I am glad that she has parents as strong as you and Mama Rock!!! God Bless you.
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Posts: 268 From: Bancroft, Ontario, Canada Registered: Mar 2011
People say we live in horrable times, but look at all the equipment at our disposal, when we need it most...
Amen to that! As mentioned by others here, technology has come a long way even in the last 15 years. My brother almost died at birth (27 years ago) and he was full term! I think BOTH of you are holding up remarkably well under the circumstances. I can't imagine that I would have done any better if it were me. Good to hear about all the progress she has made. We'll keep on praying!
I am glad to see that she just keeps on going....You just know she comes from a family with a fiero. We never give up on our cars, just like she is not giving up on life. I will keep you guys in my prayers. Hope it keeps going the same.
Gotta call yesterday afternoon, typically they would call Momma. They tried and there was no answer, she has gone back to work for a few hours a few nights a week. So they called me...
Mr B.?
Yes this is him.
How are you doing?
Well i don't know yet.
Yes sir i understand, most people hate a phone call from us. The reason I'm calling is there is some concern with brian bleeding, do you remember we have discussed this. Well our brain bleeding specialist (i really dont remember most of this convo) , is concerned with possible bleeding in Brooklyns brain. They have been measuring her head (honestly more stuff that she said was a blur) Friday they will do some tests. It may become neccessary to install a stent in Brooklyns brain to ease a blood blockage. With the stent comes the risk of infection. The stent that can be used at this time is only a 2 day max stent due to the risk of infection. When and if she gets bigger we can then install a better, permanent stent. Possiblly 2 depending on the need. We will see on Friday Mr. B
Ok how is she doing besides?
Fine she's hanging in there.
Is that all?
Yes sir.
Thank you and thank you for everything your doing! Good bye.
End of phone call....
Momma's visiting, I'm home with 3yr old, typing obviously. Well she texted...
Ok shes being a good girl 2day. her nurse talked 2 me but will b able 2 explain in more detail later but no worrying!
Then another text...
Oh and Brooklyn opened her eyes today. Yah! i was talking to her and she opened them just a little but i told her 2 close them and get some rest, which she has done
Sheesh. TY all and God Bless!
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Tony Kania Member
Posts: 20794 From: The Inland Northwest Registered: Dec 2008
Well first off lemme just say you people are amazing!!!!!!!
It's over. It ended at 9:50 pm. She went quietly in her mothers arms. Morphine in her IV. Brooklyns condition got bad quick. The doctor said the medical term, I told the nurse, "write that down for me." everyone in the room gave me this weird look. Necrotizing Entrocolitis. That coupled with the severity of bleeding in her brains. There was about 10 people there, when the doctors were talking to each other and us. Her condition had deteriated rapidly over night. The situation was pretty much critical. I can go into to it some other time, perhaps i will. The whole story. For me. They left us to talk.
At around 8:30pm they started to unhook Brooklyns life support systems. The nurse gave her a morphine injection. They handed her to Momma, everyone left. and we sat. I held her too. Brooklyn said goodbye. She opened her eyes just a bit. We both saw it. Then she closed her eyes and that was it.
ummm
Brooklyns in a better place now. No more pain. No more suffering.
edit. God Bless you all and yours. Thank you VERY much for your support. Thank you VERY much for your respect. TY most of all for letting me crap in your pie, so to speak. Allowing me to do so is undiscribable.
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Well first off lemme just say you people are amazing!!!!!!!
It's over. It ended at 9:50 pm. She went quietly in her mothers arms. Morphine in her IV. Brooklyns condition got bad quick. The doctor said the medical term, I told the nurse, "write that down for me." everyone in the room gave me this weird look. Necrotizing Entrocolitis. That coupled with the severity of bleeding in her brains. There was about 10 people there, when the doctors were talking to each other and us. Her condition had deteriated rapidly over night. The situation was pretty much critical. I can go into to it some other time, perhaps i will. The whole story. For me. They left us to talk.
At around 8:30pm they started to unhook Brooklyns life support systems. The nurse gave her a morphine injection. They handed her to Momma, everyone left. and we sat. I held her too. Brooklyn said goodbye. She opened her eyes just a bit. We both saw it. Then she closed her eyes and that was it.
ummm
Brooklyns in a better place now. No more pain. No more suffering.
edit. God Bless you all and yours. Thank you VERY much for your support. Thank you VERY much for your respect. TY most of all for letting me crap in your pie, so to speak. Allowing me to do so is undiscribable.
I'm very sorry for your loss.. she is in a better place.. cant imagin what its like losing a child...
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Posts: 1085 From: Conroe, TX, USA Registered: Aug 2005
I had been following this thread hoping for a good outcome.. I'm so very sorry to hear the news. At least she passed peacefully and you were able to see her off.. Man that sucks. Your family will be in my thoughts.
Oh..... I am so very sorry. I like everyone else was really pulling for Brooklyn. But as you and they have said, she is in a better place now. She knew she was loved and you guys had the chance to love her. Be thankful for that, Be strong for Momma, But take some time for yourself to let it all out.
srry.
