come on...tell us the age difference
After that last little note to you, I can't help but think she is playing with you. or else hasn't got the guts to be honest about HER feelings for you. If she doesn't WANT you, she doesn't want you to HELP her. She would become indebted to you, and she would hate that.
I've know quite a few people who continually 'threaten ' to kill themselves...and they are still around I also knew people who simply disappeared, and were found days or weeks later, in some secluded spot where they knew nobody would try to stop them. Just one example that I posted here just after Christmas. The 26 year-old son of one of Ellie's friends here hanged himself in his bathroom. All alone. The suicide note was totally matter-of-fact, and simply said 'I don't want to live any more. I don't blame anybody, or anything. I just wasn't right for this life'. Even his MUM didn't realise.
And seriously...Does a woman of mature years, who is telling somebody many years (according to you) younger that she wants to die, and then go off on a WOMEN'S Night????
Just as some people like to have power over some poor little puppy, and make its life HELL for 'Fun', there are people like that too. Please...how old IS she? Might make things a lot clearer to understand.
My ultimate opinion is simple. Get away. Leave her to her own devices. It should NOT be your problem, and she is, simply, NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
You owe her nothing any more.
Nick

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nitroheadz28 I admire your tenacity. Is there anyone else involved in her life? Parents, friends, relatives that could help, or begin with her from a different perspective?

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Hmmmm. Might want to take a step back and figure out where you want to end up.

Married? Kids?

Admittedly, at your age, I didn't think much about that stuff, especially kids. But she's in her prime, and let's say you get married In a few years, and then have a kid or two. She'll be nearly 40, or older.

How long have you two been together?
How many other Long term (year or more) relationships have you had?

Not saying you should RUN, not walk, but at least take a step back.

Whatever you THINK, you have a long life ahead of you, and you might want to consider your options, or ask us who are older and have been through crap for an additional decade or more (I'm not saying we're 'wise',or have experienced THAT much more then you, but it's good to learn from the mistakes of others!!!!!)

More then ten years is at least a generation difference.

Hafta look at what you LOVE about her, what things that make you so happy about being with her. Shouldn't hafta look TOO hard.

Better to be alone, then be in a destructive relationship!!!!!!

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quote Originally posted by nitroheadz28: I have taken a step back to look at it all. I know what I do love about her, but it seems that shes changed to someone completely different. I fell in love with the beautiful, bright, intelligent, classy, and overall stunning woman that I've been with for these few months. But this last month, its something different- I can't see a recovery at this point. I will keep trying until I finally break down, but it'll amaze me if this relationship OR her outlook on life can be salvaged.

I think what some of us are getting at is don't let yourself get to the breakdown point.
You stay good, stay yourself.
At some point she may come to you.

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quote Originally posted by nitroheadz28: I fell in love with the beautiful, bright, intelligent, classy, and overall stunning woman that I've been with for these few months. But this last month, its something different.

That's exactly what depression does to someone it takes away your spark and nothing matters. No person who is depressed would ever fault you for being healthy yourself so concentrate on that but if you care for her I would suggest that you make sure she knows that you are there for her if she needs you. After/if both you and her get better is the right time to make relationship decisions IMO

quote Originally posted by nitroheadz28: The fact that our relationship was VERY successful and fulfilling for the first 6-7 months until it came crashing down recently shows that I have a pretty developed mind and personality for my age.

Perhaps.

quote Originally posted by nitroheadz28: I can't imagine life without her.

Oh... Forget about my previous comment.

Saying you can't live without someone is probably one of the most immature statements a person of any chronological age could possibly utter.

You've got to be able to live for yourself, to be able love yourself. Anyone else that can add to this enjoyment is simply a bonus.

Hey things are good. In a recent study, Ohio was rated number 45 for happiest people. According the the study only 63% of us are happy. West Virginia was rated worst.

(bump) for update... How you doin, man?