Glad to hear he is at least up and around. It will take a while for him to get his coordination back. I’m still working on mine and it’s been over a year since mine.
The people will try to get him to do more than you think he should. That’s their job, and its better that he does as much as he can himself. The more he pushes himself the quicker his recovery will be. The sleeping is good for him; it’s the bodies way of healing itself. At least that's what they told me. After my stroke I think I was sleeping like 20 hours a day at first. Even now I have to take a 2 or 3-hour nap every afternoon.
Don’t let it get you down. Recovery from a stroke is at least a year, for a mild stroke. I had mine Dec. 6th, 04 and I’m still having trouble. But I don’t think they will ever let me back to work, at least not back to the kind of work I was doing before the stroke.
Again don’t let the slow progress get you down. He will get better and learn to take care of himself again. It will take time, don’t expect anything overnight. A stroke is hard on a mans body but you can recover and lead a reasonable life again but it is unusual to have it happen quickly.
If you need any first hand help on the recovery or want to know why something is happening and the doctors aren’t telling you anything. Give me a holler I’ll be glad to give you any of my experiences. I’ve never seen so many doctors or therapists in my whole life as I have in the last year.
Good luck, Hope it doesn’t look too dark. Just remember he will get better.
We can rebuild him we have the technology !