This appears that you're referring to the Generation 1 motors. I offer a rebuild service for them, so I have a little experience, plus information from this forum.
In every mechanical device, there is a point in the system that's weaker than the rest. For the Gen. 1 motors, this was the plastic gear. The rubber bump stops in them absorb the shock when the mechanism actually jams up at the end of up or down travel. I have used TFS plastic gears for years, without any problems, then something happened to their molds and the gears were coming out undersized and with concave teeth. This put all the force on 2 very small ares on the ends of the teeth and they would strip in very short order. TFS provided me with replacement gears at no charge but they had the same problem.
They notified their manufacturer and the next batch had some similar problems. This cost me a lot in rebuild labor costs and return shipping, which wasn't offered as compensation. Not wanting to absorb more loss, I have stopped using their plastic gears. I don't know if the problem has been fully corrected. I assume it has since they have put them back in their online catalog.
They also offer metal gears that don't have bump stops to absorb the shock. In my view, this transmits all the stress onto the metal fingers of the drive plate. These fingers become the weakest point in the system, and will likely be the next point of failure in the mechanical portion of the headlight system. If a customer wants these gears used in their rebuild, I will do so, but I only guarantee my assembly process. I prefer the customer purchase gears of their choice, so that portion is outside my warranty responsibility.
Dickman metal gears still use rubber bump stops which work like the original factory bump stops. Irregardless the gear material, the bump stops absorb the energy. The fingers on the drive plate are still the likely weak point, but at least you don't have them slamming metal against metal when they stop.
I've not encountered J & B weld motors, but it is a little harder substrate than the bumpstops. I think that it will also eventually crumble just like the originals. I have, however, found motors with pieces of bolt or threaded rod, hex nuts stacked on one another, and RTV filling the cavities. These were usually in motors I bought at the junk yards. Only the RTV filled motor was a customer's.
If you feel that your motor's gears are in good condition and you only need bump stops, I believe I have a batch that I removed from the motors that got the defective gears. Or I can send you a set of the ones I used to stop the ticking many encountered after rebuilding with plastic gears and rubber bump stops. I don't recommend my bump stops with metal gears, though.
[This message has been edited by fierofool (edited 07-29-2015).]