quote Originally posted by Boondawg: Well M.E.M., you asked................. Yes, Virgina, there is a Satan Claws!

Hmmmm.
See, I would have just slept with her to avoid all of THIS!!!
When you gonna learn lieing & lowering your standards is the only thing that is gaurenteed dead-bang 100% of the time.
Sucker.

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: I've been playing around with E-harmony and Lavalife, and was chatting with this one chick. 5-foot-2 and 210 pounds. I finally ended up telling her "sorry, I am not interested in screwing a fat one" She got all offended like and nasty and hostile............and LMAO.

Dang, who would have thought that. Makes one wonder why you're not more successful with folks in general.

Seriously though, living in the real world does not have to include being rude or being forced to endure insults.

I have little doubt sticks and stones have little effect on you, if you don't care, then it's hard to be insulted but, a some point, you may reap the bounty of the seeds you have sown.

Life is like that sometimes.

Ron

Wow... I mean, I'm brutally honest (read: generally a prick) and a lot of people think I'm an arsehole - but I wouldn't intentionally lead somebody on if I had no intention of "porking the pig" so to speak.

I still laughed, though - on the inside.

quote Originally posted by Boondawg: Hmmmm. See, I would have just slept with her to avoid all of THIS!!! When you gonna learn lieing & lowering your standards is the only thing that is gaurenteed dead-bang 100% of the time. Sucker.

I lol'd, then I realized it was all true, on an epic scale.

A friend has a sticker that says "No Fat Chicks" on his car, and truck. I am getting one that says "No Skinny Chicks" for my Fiero, guess who will have more fun .

Brad

quote Originally posted by twofatguys: I lol'd, then I realized it was all true, on an epic scale. A friend has a sticker that says "No Fat Chicks" on his car, and truck. I am getting one that says "No Skinny Chicks" for my Fiero, guess who will have more fun . Brad

quote Originally posted by Silentassassin185:

Well I wasn't gonna say no names lol.

Brad

quote Originally posted by Boondawg: When you gonna learn lieing & lowering your standards is the only thing that is gaurenteed dead-bang 100% of the time.

Hey, man....I wasnt the one who used a window instead of old lady Johnson............

quote Originally posted by twofatguys: I lol'd, then I realized it was all true, on an epic scale. A friend has a sticker that says "No Fat Chicks" on his car, and truck. I am getting one that says "No Skinny Chicks" for my Fiero, guess who will have more fun . Brad

Mine will read "I have a zero cull factor".

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: John, I gave up on political correctness 20 years ago.........I call it like I see it, say whats on my mind and if that hurts somebody's feelings..............grow up. This is the real world and we aint kids anymore.

You need the internet to get a girlfriend? Are you ugly? Have a big ass? Live in your mommys basement? There must be something wrong with you to be so pathetic that you have to use the internet to get a date............I'm just trying your logic (the rude as hell theory).

I find it interesting that you chose to give your insults online. Too afraid to do it to them in person I see. Maybe because deep down you know it's wrong. What is even more interesting is that you clearly started this thread to brag about it. The fact that you're proud of it speaks volumes about your character (or lack of).

....and BTW, the way you chose to get rid of her has nothing to do with political correctness, it's time to smarten up

I had the same experience, only i said "i do not date women who weigh more than me".
She demanded i go out with her because she said she could change my mind.
So i went out with her...
Then she wanted another try...
I had to tell her listen "You are very nice but i am not attracted to you"

So the question still is:


WTF is up with these aggressive fat cougars???

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I agree with all of you that it was pretty crappy to say that to her. Like I said, I dont like them either, but Im a little bit tactfull about it. I dont hurt peoples feelings unless there total jerks. I could see where she told you that to get a response. She could really be gorgeous and just seeing your true side. Ive been hooked up with people that said shes 'really nice, or really has a pretty face' and I take that as a warning. Ill meet them for a drink or lunch and if there not what I like, I just say nice meeting you and walk away. If there a supermodel, Ill ask if they want to go somewhere else after I clean up my drool, lol.

quote Originally posted by skuzzbomer: Wow... I mean, I'm brutally honest (read: generally a prick) and a lot of people think I'm an arsehole - but I wouldn't intentionally lead somebody on if I had no intention of "porking the pig" so to speak. I still laughed, though - on the inside.

just cuz he was talking to her doesnt mean his goal was to pork the pig. he never said he lead her on, he said he was TALKING to her. eharmony or whatever may be made to find dates n whatnot, but that doesnt mean you cant just talk to people. and as for EVERYONE saying there was no need to insult her, see my last post. yall keep saying honesty is good but there was no need to insult her? then he simply should have said "obese" instead of "fat." obese isnt an insult. but, i guarantee she woulda been WAY more pissed had he said that lol

quote Originally posted by faaaaq: then he simply should have said "obese" instead of "fat." obese isnt an insult. but, i guarantee she woulda been WAY more pissed had he said that lol

Absolutely, you're totally right. This was way better than saying "I'm not attracted to you". What were we all thinking?

quote Originally posted by Devotshka: Absolutely, you're totally right. This was way better than saying "I'm not attracted to you". What were we all thinking?

that would have been a half-truth. he said, in HIS personal way of speaking, that he wasnt attracted to her AND gave the reason.


if you are fat, get use to being called fat. he never said ANYTHING mean. he never said she was ugly, fugly, nasty, he didnt call her a whale, or "the cloverfield monster" (my personal favorite lol). he simply said he didnt want to get with a fat girl... :P

I tried so hard to not say anything i can't just sit back anymore. Faaaq you set me off more then the guy who made this post. First and foremost there is more to a person then weight. Beauty is truly on the inside. I never in my life was attracted to a heavy set woman till i meet the girl I am with now. After 3 years of friendship a bond grew neither of us were looking for. We are getting married later this year after a 7 year relationship.
People with no weight challange need to wake the f up. There are people that are heavy and do everything in the world to try and loose weight and it just don't happen. They see a doctor to get help and all the doctors do is blame it all on the weight. Every where they turn all they here is fat jokes. So yes you are an ******* . Your feelings are not the only one that matters in the dam world. I say all this as i help someone fight obsiety. Eating right working out only got so far and after 20+ years a doctor finaly found a problem in wich the body is not processing its insulin it produces and a slow metabolism that wont speed up are we getting somewhere. Just so you understand that's not diabeties she produces insulin just fine. I watch this girl cry every time she looks in the mirror and hates what she sees and cant get any where. Hell she can do more cardio then i can at 5'6 160lbs and trust me that's really annoying.
Now don't get me wrong there are people out there that are heavy and do nothing but eat junk food and sit at home watching tv. But please try to remember there are others who really try to change their lives and are looking for a companion as they move forward and hope for happiness.
I wont be posting in this ****ed up thread again but had to vent to the idiots that have fun in life hurting those that are only looking for happiness.

When it comes to your own love life, you can be as arbitrary as you want. There is no right or wrong because it is all about your preference at the time. Trying to convince someone that their choice of who they want to date/love/screw is wrong is like trying to convince them that their taste in food, music or art is wrong.

Perhaps M.E.M. telling her this could turn into the best thing that ever happened to her? Like getting a drug addict to hit rock bottom before going to rehab. Perhaps she'll start realizing how out of shape she is, begin exercising and eating right, lose the weight and find a man that'll treat her right for her personality AND looks. Then she can hunt down M.E.M. and tell him, "Look what you could've had."

And whilst it could be a genetic thing too, managing your weight is something everyone should take seriously regardless. I'm not going to force anyone, or even try to sway them, to exercise or eat right or anything, cause that's their choice. If you want to be fat, be fat, more power to you, doesn't change my life at all. And this may be kind of a drastic analogy, but you take care of your teeth by brushing them twice a day, why not take care of your body by exercising once a day?

But if you don't care enough about yourself to manage your weight, how am I supposed to care about you enough to want to be with you?

You control your life, you control your weight, reality is a ***** , accept it. The obese/overweight/unhealthy wouldn't last a day (or even exist, maybe in rare cases) if we were still living the caveman/wildman lifestyle.

If I may quote whatever movie this is from:

"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gunna hit as hard as life, but it ain't about how hard ya hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much you can take and keep moving forward."

quote Originally posted by Tstang429: [snip]

Yes, there are people whom are fat, just because. Then there is the VAST majority of us whom could just get off of their lazy butt, and instead of surfing Midget Pr0n all day could actually be exercising and losing some of this blubber. But in the end I just sit here and surf.

Im not huge, ok I'm pretty good size, but I blame quitting smoking. . PK won't sleep with me either, and it hurts, it hurts I tell ya.
6'0" and 250LBs here.
Brad

Guy, the humorous bit aside...it didnt have to be a beach ball, it coulda been glasses, or buck teeth or whatever...

the real point was the aggressive demanding to be taken out. 2 guys on this thread alone have experienced it, and I have been dating on-and-off for 30 years and NEVER before the past 1 or 2 have I run into that kind of attitude.

They HAVE gotten a lot pushier over the last little bit, IMHO.

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: the real point was the aggressive demanding to be taken out. .

.....but (according to your own post), that came AFTER you insulted her, there's a big difference. There should be no surprise she would be aggressive after being talked to like that. I also highly doubt she wanted to go out with you at that point, eventhough she said she wanted to, she was just ticked off.

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quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: I've been playing around with E-harmony and Lavalife, and was chatting with this one chick. 5-foot-2 and 210 pounds. I finally ended up telling her "sorry, I am not interested in screwing a fat one" She got all offended like and nasty and hostile............and LMAO....demanded that I take her out. I thought it was my choice who I date and/or be seen in public with with. Seems she has a diff-unt opinion. WTF is up with these aggressive fat cougars???

That's pretty brutal... I'm not here to judge, (yes I am), but honestly... I don't think anyone is better off because of having said that. You obviously made that comment because of your own lack of self confidence in yourself. Sure, I wouldn't like to go out with someone who hasn't taken very good care of themselves either, but there's no reason to point that out. How would you feel if you found out tomorrow that she committed suicide, or decided to go do some hard drugs, had a heart attack and died? You can be honest, but no need to be offensive about it.

quote Originally posted by Marvin McInnis: Your posts (here and elsewhere on PFF) reek of narcissism. The "real world" isn't just about you. There is a huge difference between political correctness and basic human civility, and you seem not to understand ... or not to care about ... that difference. A simple "I just don't think I'm interested in going out with you" would have adequately expressed what's on your mind without being hurtful.

I hate to point this out, because it's really a deep insult to MidEngineMechanic, and I don't mean to be a jerk about it... but open "narcissism", is usually a sign that the person really doesn't believe it. They make egotistical comments in hopes of getting a response or some kind of agreement that will invalidate their lack of self worth. Personally, I'm very proud of myself, and what I've accomplished in my life so far. But there's a difference between having lots of pride in yourself, and misplaced arrogance. I might occasionally tell myself how awesome I think I am, but I don't go around with the better than all attitude. It's usually pretty easy to spot the difference.

Again, not trying to be a dick here... but part of growing and becomming a better person is the ability to recognize and work through your own issues.

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: Until you people realize that there IS no god, and I am god, guould, dictator and master over the entire galaxy....here is what is going to happen suckku's........

How did you go from calling out fat girls to talking about God? Is this just more deferrance of emotion?


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2002 Ford Explorer Sport 2dr 4x2
2002 Ford Crown Victoria LX
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quote Originally posted by 82-T/A [At Work]: How would you feel if you found out tomorrow that she committed suicide, or decided to go do some hard drugs, had a heart attack and died?

I'd wager he'd laugh, and probably brag about it.