| quote | Originally posted by JazzMan:
It's hard for me to fathom, really. You see people spending more of their money on energy and food, and general inflation for that matter, yet you honestly wonder why they're spending less on other things that aren't as important. It's like you can't even comprehend the fact that somebody could reach into their wallet and find that it was empty.
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Pokey can attest to the fact that I have been doing that for the past month! Why do you think I have been working 7 days a week lately. The difference is that I ACCEPT that times get hard and that the solution is NOT to hold your hand out but to roll your sleves up. I'm in the thick of the economic down turn as a real estate specialist but you won't hear any complaints from me. I just work harder and I'm doing fine. When things pick up I'll be doing even better.
| quote | Until you can actually comprehend that in a real, visceral manner I honestly don't think you can grasp what's happening in this economy. I will commend you for choosing a good career field, though. Houses will always sell, and you'll always get a cut. JazzMan |
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I can and I do. I don't mean this as a put down Jazz, just a statement of fact, I have forgotten more about economics than you will ever know. I understand the reasons for this down turn all too clearly.
And I am not loaded Jazz. I live in a very modest 3/2 house of 1305 sf, I have two car payments, and I try to squirrel away some money each month for the kids college fund by working my ass off as both a general contractor AND real estate agent. Today I was in the office doing paperwork and arranging to show property to clients, tomorrow I am in my jeans installing lights and door knobs and making some plumbing repairs on a house I am trying to flip. Yesterday I took my kids to an airshow in the morning and then we went out to lunch and then at 2:00 I went to the job site where I put in 6 straight hours of work...that was my Sunday. No football, no brewski's with the boys, no sitting around whining about Bush and the economy. Just working hard for my family.
In short..I GET IT! And when I see people whining and doing nothing about it, I don't have much trouble seeing the problem. If I can get by ANYBODY can.
| quote | If I didn't have Asperger's I'd probably have done the same thing, but it takes a fairly social and charismatic type personality to succeed in that field and those are traits that I can't have so I'd never be able to compete against those like you.
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I genuinely empathize with your medical condition Jazz. I mean that sincerely. But I have an observations to make: I saw a man on TV once who had no arms and no legs. He was not only getting by but he was thriving! Gorgeous wife, two great kids, top paying job...and not an excuse in sight! A genuine inspiration. He has had to endure more than you or I will ever know and he turned lemons into lemonade through hard work and confidence. The reporter asked him how he managed to get by with his handicap and he said, "What handicap?" There are achievers and there are excuse makers. Pick a team.
[This message has been edited by Toddster (edited 07-14-2008).]