Thanks to everyone who contributed to this thread.
I reassembled everything for a final time and the engine runs much better. Not perfect, still has a low rpm stumble, but doesn't feel like its missing a cylinder anymore.
The last things I did were: change the plug wires again, replace the throttle body gasket, upper plenum gaskets, and EGR tube gasket, reseating the fuel injectors and their connections, replacing distributor cap, and reseating the fuel injection fuses. It's frustrating, because I already did all of the above previously - maybe it was a combination of things.
FWIW, unplugging the cold start injector did not affect the running too much, just made it harder to start (but wasn't sticking). All of the cylinders ARE firing now (as confirmed by pulling plug wires). Pulling either injection fuse made the car run very poorly (but it did run, surprisingly).
I am going to change the TPS and check the MAP - thanks for the tip, Klausse.
Now I need to figure out why I have a low-rpm stumble, but I will start a new thread for that. Thanks again all.
[This message has been edited by masospaghetti (edited 06-28-2010).]