I've replaced the whole drive train in the car (ok, I paid bmwguru to have it done

.) The car got a new flywheel from a Camaro, machined and balanced, but I dont know the specifics. The overall feel of the clutch is very good, it just doesn't grab until almost fully released. It makes it hard to pull out and also shift smoothly, and due to my own bad timing I often wind up slipping the clutch more than I like as a result of "deep clutching."
Washers sound like my most simple solution, so I'll try that first.
Thanks all for the suggestions!