Try disconnecting the blue square shaped wire connector on your transmission and see if the problem continues. If the car doesn't stall in gear then you need a new TCC solenoid. Going from memory, the connector is almost directly below the O2 sensor on the transmission.
Edit,,,, You really need to ground the ADL connector and get a real timing light on it. No timing belt, has a timing chain, fairly durable, usually doesn't break but has been known to jump a tooth on high mileage cars.
[This message has been edited by jetman (edited 07-14-2008).]