There are several types of vapor recovery nozells running around. Some look almost like non recovery ones.
The way the nozell works... pressure in the neck doesn't matter. The usual problem is fuel hitting the top area of the pipe where the tank vent passage is trying to unload fumes. This makes the foam splash around the nozel end where the sensor opening is. All it takes is a little foam hitting that opening to kick the pump off, especially if the nozel is set on the sensitive side as ones on many high speed pumps are.
That brings me to another point... many of the larger chains use a faster pump to keep people moving. These are capable of filling some cars a little faster than the pipe can easily drain.
Holding the handle up so the fuel discharges more downward into the pipe can help with both problems.