The calpak is the smaller chip two black chips. The larger is calibration module (prom, chip, etc.)
As you said, if the ECM fails, that chip can at least squirt fuel for the injectors. Since the ignition will loopback internally and fire the plugs, you just need fuel. The oil pressure backup switch will run the pump. If the ECM is running in backup off the calpak, it will run just good enough that it's ever so slightly better than walking. 
When you get a calpak error it's because the ECM doesn't see it there or it sees the wrong one. You should have a 16044802 calpak. It's stamped on the top of the calpak. If that is right one, check that it's seated and there are no bent pins.
You should also have one of the eproms: APN, APP, APR, APS, FBA, FBB, HWT, HWU, HWW, HWX, AATC, AKYM, AKYN, AKYP, AKYR
If those are correct, no bent pins and they are seated then suspect the ECM but keep in mind that a bad ECM is very rare. They protect themselves very well.
TK
[This message has been edited by TK (edited 12-07-2005).]