If your friend is well versed, it should be ok.
I don't have my R12 charts anymore, but look up the pressure for R12 to get a temp of about 35°F - 40°F.
http://www.ackits.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=Chart
This chart suggests 35 - 40 psi on the low side (the side you'll be adding refrigerant to).
So, purchase a set of manifold gauges and just add refrigerant until the pressure is between 35 - 40 psi. Lower pressure will give colder air, but if it leaks much at all you lose your cooling. I'd shoot for right in the middle and call it good.