funny you should ask... LoL... I JUST refinished my front bumper today on my 86SE...
I used a product by Bondo ... comes in a tube... the exact name escapes me... I wanna say "Gel Finish" or something similar... comes in an ugly orange packaging... you'll know it when you see it...
worked like a CHARM for me on some deep gouges and pitting I had on my bumper.... applied it in a few medium coats (suggests using only thin coats.... I gave it a little extra drying time)... I did a very sloppy job with a plastic putty knife just making sure I had the entire area filled... then sanded it down using 400 grit dry.... I sanded pretty heavy around the spiderwebbing and lower front end.... I probably could have (should have?) sanded more.... but the final product I used hid any sanding imperfections....tack-clothed it... then hit it with Dupli-Color sandable primer.... HEAVY... I used almost 2 cans on the front bumper alone.... went heavy on it to fill up some spider webbing I had.... I ALMOST went with the heavy build primer your talking about, and in retrospect it might have been better for what I needed.... but the final coating I used is a product I picked up at Pep Boys.... its called Pro Color Bumper and Trim coating... another rattle can product.... (pro-something anyways... not positive... long day, I'm tired and have huffed alot of fumes today LoL).... it does NOT match the black color of my Fiero... but that was completely ok.... it ends up looking VERY stock late model bumper.... that sorta textured satiny/light gloss look you see on alot of SUV bumpers (best I can liken it too anyways)....
Anyways, it wound up looking very good to me.... again, the bumper does not have the gloss the rest of my paint does, but I like it and my bumper was ATROCIOUS... stained with wax spills, faded all to hell, spiderwebbing and pitting.... the spiderwebbing is completely gone... pitting is gone (mostly, some areas I didn't fill as well as I could have, but barely noticeable... my fault, not the product).... all told, I'm very happy with how it turned out....
The beauty in the Bumper/Trim coating I used is... due to the very light texture it hides alot.... so if you don't sand as well as you should, it will hide those spiderwebs for you... I don't know much about pro paining/mixing and gunning.... I'm a rattle can commando due to lack of tools and knowledge.... but like I said, I think it looks very very good, and stock.... which is a nice addition... cuz instead of looking like I touched something up and having it not look like it belongs on the car.... it looks like it came that way, and compliments well wit the rest of the car....
thats how I went... you sound like your more intersted in matching it back to the paint and whatnot... so I'm not sure how helpfull this will be... but thats my experience!
Good luck to ya!