slide a "pick" or very small screwdriver into the side where it plugs into the other connector (not the wire side) second pic
what you are doing is releasing a clip for the connector
As you poke the point/pick into the correct pin....push the wire IN a bit then stick the pick in the other end while pulling gently on the wire.
should come right out! ( you can do this!! if not ...take it to a auto shop or radio shack) very easy to do and should not have to pay someone to do it!
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