UPDATE:Got the tool Ogre suggested (Lisle PN 53000) at Poorman's Auto Supply for $20.85 + tax. PepBoys+ AutoZone didn't have, and couldn't order one for me.
It worked like a charm! Positioned the tool into the plug, snapped on a 1/2" drive breaker bar, put 2-foot pipe on that. Placed an old throwout bearing (I almost never throw them out
) + block of wood under the head of the breaker bar, to keep it all from squirting out of there.
No go with the 2-foot cheater pipe, but added a 5-footer (really) and gradually applied torque. When it began to yield, I was afraid I would find that the tool had slipped, but in fact the plug was beginning to turn!
So old "Slick" finally gave in to gentle persuasion! 
Many thanks, all, for the helpful suggestions! Now that the plug is out, I can tell you that the hex is (in my case, was) about .94" between flats, or just under 24mm.
BTW, yes, this was the first time I tried to get the plug out of this car. Next time should be easier. Thanks again