i'm really freakin annoyed right now. (Page 6/17)
Raydar JAN 13, 11:23 PM

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Originally posted by 84Bill:
If thats the case buddy you should have called the police and reported this because what she said was a threat of bodily harm...



That's kind of my take on it.
Was a veiled threat, but a threat, nonetheless.
buddycraigg JAN 13, 11:25 PM
let's get back to how i was being arrogant...

what did i do that was arrogant?
84Bill JAN 13, 11:27 PM

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Originally posted by sostock:
When I tell someone "no" that's it. they aren't my kids, its not a negotiation.




I dont negotiate either. When I say NO I make sure to look them directly in the eyes when doing so there is no mistaking what I said.
84Bill JAN 13, 11:31 PM

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Originally posted by buddycraigg:
let's get back to how i was being arrogant...
what did i do that was arrogant?



Keeping your back turned and saying no..

IMHO thats what sparked the problem. Unless you want to blame it on the beggers then blame it all on them...
I dont care either way. I know what I would have done and I surely wouldn't do what you did... thats a fact jack.

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buddycraigg JAN 13, 11:35 PM

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Originally posted by 84Bill:
Keeping your back turned and saying "no" is showing weakness on your part.


when she said that, i concentrated my hearing behind me, towards the pavement. to listen for foot steps / running.
and my hand was already on my gun before i exited the store.

i dont have the mindset that "the best defense is a good offense"
i didn't want any confrontation.
i just wanted to buy my food and go home.
84Bill JAN 13, 11:43 PM

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Originally posted by buddycraigg:
when she said that, i concentrated my hearing behind me, towards the pavement. to listen for foot steps / running.
and my hand was already on my gun before i exited the store.



Thats all good man...


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i dont have the mindset that "the best defense is a good offense"
i didn't want any confrontation.
i just wanted to buy my food and go home.



But you were confronted and it appears in your haste to avoid it you inadvertently escalated it. Just depends on how you want to lay the blame.
buddycraigg JAN 13, 11:51 PM

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Originally posted by 84Bill:
When I say NO I make sure to look them directly in the eyes when doing so there is no mistaking what I said.


i did the first time...

let's get back to how i was being arrogant...
what did i do that was arrogant?

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Originally posted by 84Bill:
Keeping your back turned and saying no..


keep in mind i was already past her when she said this."Yo. You cant make a donation?"
she was talking to my back.
was i supposed to stop, turn around and say NO?


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Originally posted by 84Bill:
If thats the case buddy you should have called the police and reported this because what she said was a threat of bodily harm...


the dispatcher would have laughed at me over the phone

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buddycraigg JAN 13, 11:54 PM
bill, you have a PM
84Bill JAN 14, 12:08 AM

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Originally posted by buddycraigg:
was i supposed to stop, turn around and say NO?



I would have.

Actually this is exactly what I would have done given the exact situation.

Hey can you make a donation?

Yo wasup, Nah man, I aint got cash on me. Mutha fukin cold as a muta out here tonight... give a whole new meaning to breaking a bioch off dont it? <big smile>

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buddycraigg JAN 14, 12:11 AM

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Originally posted by 84Bill:
Yo wasup, Nah baby,



i would have felt strange saying that to the GUY that asked me on the way in...


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Originally posted by 84Bill:
Yo wasup, Nah baby, I aint got cash on me. Mutha fukin cold as a muta out here tonight... give a whole new meaning to braking a bioch off dont it? <big smile>


would that have been your statement going in to the store or out?

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