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Retired? How do you fill your day? (Page 1/8) |
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blackrams
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JAN 27, 06:08 AM
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I have had a job since I was 12 years old, Spent much of my adult life in the military and then joined the civilian workforce and worked my way up the management chain until the Peter Principle caught up with me. Director of OHSA in KY, Production Manager in a couple of different facilities and then General Manager of an Auto Parts store. Owned and maintained a small Hot Shot Transport entity. Have been retired for almost two years now, moved to Mississippi for a number of reasons, the economic and tax reasons being high on the priority list. Bought and completely remodeled/added on to the house we bought, finished that a few months back, trimmed back the forest that surrounded three sides of my property, cleared the fence lines and now, I'm looking for anything to do to keep me busy.
Here's my problem, I'm bored as hell. Retirement is great if, all you want to do is sit on yer ass and watch tv or play on this damn computer but, it gets old. Looking at buying the property behind my own but, the owner doesn't want to sell it quite yet, sentimental reasons. He's elderly and is holding on to it for his daughter. She doesn't want it but won't tell him that so, now I feel like a vulture waiting for him to die so I can buy it and clean it up. I hate Pine Trees. He's in a full time rest care home due to a stroke. It's a sad situation for him.
I still have all the trucks/trailers/equipment to transport all kinds of things but, really feel the need to be around to help the wife out, she's kind of clumsy and her dog has tripped her twice this year resulting in her getting hurt. I'd shoot the dog but, that would lead to other issues.
Due to the Pandemic, we don't go out much and other than delivery drivers, don't see many folks. I'm bored as hell. Being retired means, you've got a lot of time to do things but, don't have the income to really do all the things you would like to. Have addressed most of the things in my bucket list but, I'm not quite ready to die. 
I joined the local EAA flying club but, they are all fixed winged guys and I get bored there, not a single one can hover.  Thought about getting back into the farming/ranching mode but, really don't have enough property (at this time) to do anything. 
So, what do you retired guys do?
Rams[This message has been edited by blackrams (edited 01-27-2021).]
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Hudini
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JAN 27, 07:20 AM
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You have any hobbies? Like to build stuff? Artistic or paint by numbers?
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OldsFiero
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JAN 27, 07:32 AM
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I owned and operated my own auto repair/transmission shop for 44 years and retired this past Sept. I moved some of my trans equipment to my shop at home. I spent the first couple of months cleaning and setting up the shop better. I'm only building some competition and street rod transmissions for cash paying customers. After years of 12-14 hour days, I like being able to pick and choose what I'm going to do. I have a fairly well equipped wood shop also, and will be doing more woodworking. For the first time in my life, I was able to hunt the entire whitetail rut last fall. I've always been a project guy and as long as I can afford to, I can dream up enough of those to keep me busy(not to mention the several unfinished ones that are years old). I can also do some of the chores at a slower pace. I takes more than a few minutes to saw up the winter fuel supply and now that I'm heating the garage full time, the wood consumption has gone up a few face cord. We will see what summer brings. Hoping to do more fishing and maybe cruise around more. I don't do much social media, but maybe I'll spend more time here. Well, it's getting late. I guess I should fire up Whitey Ford and go plow the driveway. Good luck to you Rams. Marc
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blackrams
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JAN 27, 07:34 AM
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quote | Originally posted by Hudini:
You have any hobbies? Like to build stuff? Artistic or paint by numbers? |
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Have looked at several different things in the hobby line. Either not that interested or, costs way too much to get into. Ride my Valkyrie quite a bit but, you can only go so much and so far. Used to like to build furniture (woodworking). But, no longer have the tools and they ain't cheap for good quality tools.
This thread, was started pretty much out of boredom. That should tell the readers of this thread something. Was talking to one of those delivery driver's the other day, he said they were desperate for drivers. I laughing said, well tell your boss to give me a shout.
I'll be damned if his boss didn't call me the next day. Considering my options. It's something to do and bring in a few bucks. His boss told me he was having a terrible time hiring, many can't pass the background check/drug screen and those that can don't want to work.
Interesting conundrum. Thinking about it.
quote | Originally posted by OldsFiero:
I owned and operated my own auto repair/transmission shop for 44 years and retired this past Sept. I moved some of my trans equipment to my shop at home. I spent the first couple of months cleaning and setting up the shop better. I'm only building some competition and street rod transmissions for cash paying customers. After years of 12-14 hour days, I like being able to pick and choose what I'm going to do. I have a fairly well equipped wood shop also, and will be doing more woodworking. For the first time in my life, I was able to hunt the entire whitetail rut last fall. I've always been a project guy and as long as I can afford to, I can dream up enough of those to keep me busy(not to mention the several unfinished ones that are years old). I can also do some of the chores at a slower pace. I takes more than a few minutes to saw up the winter fuel supply and now that I'm heating the garage full time, the wood consumption has gone up a few face cord. We will see what summer brings. Hoping to do more fishing and maybe cruise around more. I don't do much social media, but maybe I'll spend more time here. Well, it's getting late. I guess I should fire up Whitey Ford and go plow the driveway. Good luck to you Rams. Marc |
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Sounds like you've got a plan. I thought I had one but, since I don't have a shop any longer and the prospects of getting one are remote, I'm at a loss for that kind of project. Mostly due to the way my property lays and of course, new shop buildings aren't cheap to build. But, I am trying to buy the ladies shop next door. She only uses it to throw crap into the trash guys won't take. She's gonna have to do something in the near future, it's pretty well packed. It's about 20'X30' (a guess) and not really what I want but, it'll do. But, again she has an emotional attachment to the building cause grandpa built it. 
Can't stand the fishing thing, just not my thing. Getting old sucks. But it beats the obvious alternative. 
Rams[This message has been edited by blackrams (edited 01-27-2021).]
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sourmash
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JAN 27, 08:46 AM
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The fedex del driver type thing looks very unattractive. It cant be worth it by watching them.
Maybe the food del might be something that could let you put eyes on lots of neighborhoods where you could spot a project that you weren't considering?
Something to get you around a high rent district can open up possibilities.
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blackrams
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JAN 27, 08:52 AM
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quote | Originally posted by sourmash:
The fedex del driver type thing looks very unattractive. It cant be worth it by watching them.
Maybe the food del might be something that could let you put eyes on lots of neighborhoods where you could spot a project that you weren't considering?
Something to get you around a high rent district can open up possibilities. |
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Something to keep in mind. One of the reasons I joined EAA was to get more involved in what's happening in this area but, COVID slowed that down a bunch. Reference the FedEx opportunity, just something to consider. It would get me out and about to places I haven't been. One never knows. As I always told my wife, every trip hot shotting was an adventure. Boy, do I have some stories I could tell. 
Rams
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sourmash
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JAN 27, 09:26 AM
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EAA sounds fun. But an acquaintance of ours died in one.
Our fedex driver is female and uses it as an exercise op. She runs to the door and back. If you were to ask me, well, it appears to be working. You wouldnt like the time demands they put on you. The curve seems to have passed Fedex.
Building a trans from time to time in retirement sorta appealed to me when thinking what to do when the time comes. Something to make a few dollars.
Consider these three words: Mobile Spray Tans.
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williegoat
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JAN 27, 10:51 AM
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From my teens to my thirties, I was glued to a motorcycle and my plans were to spend my retirement in the saddle. But after literally millions of miles of asphalt have passed under my ass, the road has lost its magic. The highway holds no hoodoo.
Though it wasn't planned, I rekindled my first love: music. As a child, I learned piano, violin and guitar and was always surrounded by everything from boogie woogie to Beethoven. When I became an adult, I stopped playing.
After I retired, I bought a new guitar, then another, then a fiddle, a clarinet, a pedal steel....well you guys know the rest of the story. There are enough different styles and instruments to keep my attention from here to eternity.
What I learned: retirement isn't about plans.
[This message has been edited by williegoat (edited 01-27-2021).]
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MidEngineManiac
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JAN 27, 12:20 PM
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Get yourself a 3d printer. Its a hell of a frustrating learning curve for the first few weeks-month but after that there are literally a gazillion models out there and hobbies to get into. Plus people will pay for some of the stuff so at worst its a free hobby and at best a sideline business that (mostly) runs itself since the printing is hands-off. Everything from gun parts to gaming pieces to home décor to tools and usefull items. Past month I have even started to teach myself 3d modeling and am starting into original designs.
If you get into the modeling, once you are good enough you can sell your designs on a bunch of different websites. Total cost to get started is under 500 bucks with a decent-but-not-top-notch printer.

Early version of a custom AR type frame for a Ruger I've been working on. ALL the bells and whistles built-in...and since its not a "Replica" or "near identical" its not included in TruDumbs gun ban and legal in Canada. Just to play it safe I'll print it in Grey and Blue or something since nobody EVER built an AR in those colors.
The whole thing is addictive once you get into it. Hell, even the pegboard tool mounts on my workstation, I didnt buy them I printed custom ones for exactly what I need to fit exactly what I have.
This isnt exaclty "retirement" for me either, its just a case of the goobernment decided to go and close about 60% of my contracts right now since they were "non-essential business". Once things open up again things will pick back up. But, I have the time, may as well do something productive with it.[This message has been edited by MidEngineManiac (edited 01-27-2021).]
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cvxjet
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JAN 27, 02:56 PM
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I have a lot of hobbies;
A) Working on the Fiero (And my van)
B) Working on my boat

C) Working on house and yard
D) Painting

E) Drawing Cartoons

F) Writing stories that are funny from my past;
The first time we went camping at Trinity lake was in 1965- I was 4 at the time. Our friends told us to "Launch at the marina and then go around to the left and back into the arm"....But they failed to tell us which Marina to launch at! We launched at the wrong marina and ended up at Minersville campsite- alone. It was windy and my Father said we would stay there the night and search for our friends the following day. We began to set up the campsite, and then my Mother started to cook dinner while my Father was setting up the tent. It was an old "Arabian nights" style tent- four poles in a square around the top(Inside) and one long pole in the middle to hold it up. My Father was inside trying to get it to all fit together and a gust of wind knocked the tent over- there were a couple of clunks from the general area of my Father's head inside the tent- Followed by my Father uttering several words that were new to me. I went over to my Mother and stated "Mom...Dad is saying words I never heard before!" She looked at me, then at where my Father was crawling out of the tent, and then told me "Eric- why don't you go down and watch the boat- make sure the wind isn't blowing it around" I went down and watched the boat- but I knew my Father had done a good job of anchoring it out away from shore...I wondered why my Mother had sent me down there...... It was several years later that I came to actually know what all those new words meant!
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