I've been playing around with E-harmony and Lavalife, and was chatting with this one chick.

5-foot-2 and 210 pounds.

I finally ended up telling her "sorry, I am not interested in screwing a fat one"

She got all offended like and nasty and hostile............and LMAO....demanded that I take her out.

I thought it was my choice who I date and/or be seen in public with with. Seems she has a diff-unt opinion.

WTF is up with these aggressive fat cougars???

Free sex!

Dude, if I thought for one minute you wern't trying to be funny...............................eh, who am I kidding, that was funny!

Mean, yes.
But also funny.
Becouse i'm pretending that she was having fun with you, too, and not getting her feelings hurt becouse you could have found a way to reject her in a more tactfull way.

Yes, you were unnesisarily mean.
But truthfull, I guess.

Dude, seriously give her a shot. Could be the best date you have ever been on.

She thinks she has something you will like, she could.

Lets see, you called her a "fatty" and she still insists on a date, I'd wear the ol' body armor.

Brad

yeh...and a tripple dose of penicillin 1st, plus tripple wrap it.

With that attitude, she has probably been around the block more times than go-kart in a neighborhood of kids

Cruel? No. Painfully honest? maybe.

You know what they say though...Fat chicks need lovin' too, they just gotta pay

If she were taller than 5' 2", it'd be another story me thinks. 210 and 5' 7-9" ain't so bad (as long as they carry it well and aren't round like a beach ball). I dated a girl that was 5'9" and about 200, but mostly muscle and boobs (DD funbags )

quote Originally posted by Xerces_Blackthorne: Cruel? No. Painfully honest? maybe. You know what they say though...Fat chicks need lovin' too, they just gotta pay If she were taller than 5' 2", it'd be another story me thinks. 210 and 5' 7-9" ain't so bad (as long as they carry it well and aren't round like a beach ball). I dated a girl that was 5'9" and about 200, but mostly muscle and boobs (DD funbags )

Dude--I like mine short, and thin enough that ya can break 'em with a good hug

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: Dude--I like mine short, and thin enough that ya can break 'em with a good hug

Any port in a storm I always say Not too big on them ones that look like I'll snap em. A bit of meat never hurt anyone. I'm always afraid to date one of these 90 lb 5' tall girls for fear that I'll snap em like a wishbone...

Of course, I like em all. short or tall, big or small. They all **** the same

I'm curious as to what you thought you gained by saying:

"sorry, I am not interested in screwing a fat one"

When something along the lines of:

"I'm sorry, I just don't think I'm interested in going out with you"

would have gotten your message across without being mean and hateful?

Your posts seem to have this continuing theme. You seem to delight in hurting others.
I'm glad I'm not you, life's too short.

John Stricker

John, I gave up on political correctness 20 years ago.........I call it like I see it, say whats on my mind and if that hurts somebody's feelings..............grow up. This is the real world and we aint kids anymore.

"Calling it like you see it" doesn't require you to be an azzhole. You seem to not be able to tell the difference.

John Stricker

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: John, I gave up on political correctness 20 years ago.........I call it like I see it, say whats on my mind and if that hurts somebody's feelings..............grow up. This is the real world and we aint kids anymore.

Political correctness? I think this just about is being a decent human being, not about being "PC". There is a difference.

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: John, I gave up on political correctness 20 years ago.........I call it like I see it, say whats on my mind and if that hurts somebody's feelings..............grow up. This is the real world and we aint kids anymore.

I gotta agree with John.

There is a difference between "Political Correctness" and just plain tact. There's also a difference between "Calling it like you see it" and just plain being an a$$hole.

quote Originally posted by CoryFiero: Political correctness? I think this just about is being a decent human being, not about being "PC". There is a difference.

I 2nd that. ( or is that 3rd? )

Oh, and looks are relative.. so is weight ( until you get into unhealthy obese or anorexic, but that isn't what is going on here )

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quote Originally posted by jstricker: I'm curious as to what you thought you gained by saying: "sorry, I am not interested in screwing a fat one" ... Your posts seem to have this continuing theme. You seem to delight in hurting others.

Excellent analysis of the situation!

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: She got all offended ...

And what did you expect? Are you the only one who's allowed to say "what's on my mind?"

quote I gave up on political correctness 20 years ago.........I call it like I see it, say whats on my mind and if that hurts somebody's feelings..............grow up. This is the real world and we aint kids anymore.

Your posts (here and elsewhere on PFF) reek of narcissism. The "real world" isn't just about you. There is a huge difference between political correctness and basic human civility, and you seem not to understand ... or not to care about ... that difference. A simple "I just don't think I'm interested in going out with you" would have adequately expressed what's on your mind without being hurtful.

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Yeh, I am narcasistic...........and I really dont care about the bowling game last night in nanuvit.........

Until you people realize that there IS no god, and I am god, guould, dictator and master over the entire galaxy....here is what is going to happen suckku's........

I will execute all disbelievers with airsoft foam pellets to the groin !!!!

It may take a few million years and a couple quadrillion rounds---but I will shoot yer balls off

and I still aint gettin in bed with no fat chick

quote Originally posted by User00013170: I 2nd that. ( or is that 3rd? ) Oh, and looks are relative.. so is weight ( until you get into unhealthy obese or anorexic, but that isn't what is going on here )

Come on Nurb!! 5'2", 210 lbs is obese! 14 stone!! M.E.M...when you on Stringer's Show? Won't be long now
Nick

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: Yeh, I am narcasistic...........and I really dont care about the bowling game last night in nanuvit......... Until you people realize that there IS no god, and I am god, guould, dictator and master over the entire galaxy....here is what is going to happen suckku's........ I will execute all disbelievers with airsoft foam pellets to the groin !!!! It may take a few million years and a couple quadrillion rounds---but I will shoot yer balls off and I still aint gettin in bed with no fat chick

You can't argue with that.
No, really, you can't.
It's his world, and he's just a squirrel trying to get a nut!

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quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: John, I gave up on political correctness 20 years ago.........I call it like I see it, say whats on my mind and if that hurts somebody's feelings..............grow up. This is the real world and we aint kids anymore.

Calling it like you see it does not mean being as hurtful as possible when doing so.
You try to hurt others to make yourself feel important and in control. It's a theme you've exhibited frequently.

You enjoy hurting others. This thread isn't to ask if you were cruel. You know you were. That was your intent.

This thread is to brag about it.

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: Yeh, I am narcasistic

Did you mean narcissistic? Yeah, that fits. You forgot sadistic,too.

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quote Originally posted by Formula88: Calling it like you see it does not mean being as hurtful as possible when doing so. You try to hurt others to make yourself feel important and in control. It's a theme you've exhibited frequently. You enjoy hurting others. This thread isn't to ask if you were cruel. You know you were. That was your intent. This thread is to brag about it.

Well M.E.M., you asked.................
Yes, Virgina, there is a Satan Claws!

quote Originally posted by Boondawg: Well M.E.M., you asked................. Yes, Virgina, there is a Satan Claws!

Santa was a greaat movie ...same as 30 days of nite.......(boon, aint you in one of those alaskan towns ? ) <hehehehehehe>

and I still aint screwin no fat chick

I guess I'm an a$$hole too, cause that was funny!

Y'all need to chill lol. All he said was he doesn't date fat chicks. She IS fat. So he wasn't politically correct? Soooo, you think he should have instead said "I don't date obese females"? Lol, yea that's much better. People need to stop lying in order to avoid hurting someones feelings. He was honest. If he hadntve been, she woulda beat herself up over why he said no, and just eaten more lol. Jk. But really, cmon everyone, honesty is always best, even if it isn't nicest

quote Originally posted by faaaaq: Y'all need to chill lol. All he said was he doesn't date fat chicks. She IS fat. So he wasn't politically correct? Soooo, you think he should have instead said "I don't date obese females"? Lol, yea that's much better. People need to stop lying in order to avoid hurting someones feelings. He was honest. If he hadntve been, she woulda beat herself up over why he said no, and just eaten more lol. Jk. But really, cmon everyone, honesty is always best, even if it isn't nicest

X2

Its got nothing to do with PC thats just being a mean ******* . I agree with you but there was no reason to be a doucebag about it.

As for her demanding, stay the hell away, there is something wrong there, like still got your kidney wrong

quote Originally posted by Formula88: This thread isn't to ask if you were cruel ... This thread is to brag about it.

Bingo!

quote You forgot sadistic,too.

MidEngineManiac's apparent misogyny isn't cool, either. See this thread for another recent example: "... women are trash." There is a pattern here.

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Weren't you giving up on women last week? I don't hate you for being honest. I believe also that you could have been a bit more tactful. But, on the other hand, it is not my place to tell you how to live. Just as it is not your place to tell me how to live.

What kind of shape are you in? She must not be too realistic in her search if you are built like an Adonis, and she is looking for the perfect body. A lot of girls are like that. A lot of guys too. Maybe she should redo her criteria? Maybe you need to redo yours to avoid plus size women?.

My $.02. Worth less than that, but I didn't have any change.

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It's funny because fat people don't have feelings.

This also probably has a lot to do with why you are on a internet dating site.

/DNRT

wow.

quote Originally posted by Devotshka: It's funny because fat people don't have feelings. This also probably has a lot to do with why you are on a internet dating site. /DNRT

lol

I totally agree lots of big / fat people are great and I dont have any problem with that. In a dating or sexual situation I like thin to average girls because thats what turns me on. If i did date an overweight girl, it would have to be just a nite out....because there wouldnt be a possiblity of anything further...if you get my meaning. Its not about being nice or politicly correct with me, just a fact of function (or non function).

Maybe she was just jerking you around with her description of herself. Maybe she was 5 ft 2 and 110 pounds.. You'll never know.

OP, yes you were.
On the other hand, 210 at 5'2" can not be too healthy and during the run of life will probability only get worse. I would have told her the same thing in different words. I am just under 200 at 5'6" but, I am also very athletic under a slab of fat.
I bet you also like these http://s70.photobucket.com/home/xdestroyxyourselfx

quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: Yeh, I am narcasistic...........and I really dont care about the bowling game last night in nanuvit......... Until you people realize that there IS no god, and I am god, guould, dictator and master over the entire galaxy....here is what is going to happen suckku's........ I will execute all disbelievers with airsoft foam pellets to the groin !!!! It may take a few million years and a couple quadrillion rounds---but I will shoot yer balls off and I still aint gettin in bed with no fat chick

Tactless? Yes. Funny? A little. I have gotten to where I will just say things to and not dance or "sugar coat" things. Maybe it's due to getting older.

Now for a comment on the quote......

Bring your Airsoft gun, M.E.M. !!!! I've got my sports cup on. BRING IT!!!!!

quote Topic: Was I too cruel?

Like the saying goes, "if you have to ask..."

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quote Originally posted by jstricker: I'm curious as to what you thought you gained by saying: "sorry, I am not interested in screwing a fat one" When something along the lines of: "I'm sorry, I just don't think I'm interested in going out with you" would have gotten your message across without being mean and hateful? Your posts seem to have this continuing theme. You seem to delight in hurting others. I'm glad I'm not you, life's too short. John Stricker

John, you and numerous got +'s from me for being decent people. I am all for being honest, I dont lie to people at all and havnt in 20 years. However as others have stated there is a major difference in being honest and just absolutely being a freaking nasty ******* . If your so self absorbed that you cant even begin to consider someone because of their weight than really you just dont deserve happiness. It really is no wonder that your on an internet dating site, cause obviously your personality wont work in txt so its no wonder that it wont face to face. You could of just missed out on what might of been the best thing of your life and eternal happiness and you would never know it because you must be this absolutely perfect person with not a single flaw on your body top to bottom, oh wait you already showed one flaw.

quote Originally posted by phreakboy4: you must be this absolutely perfect person with not a single flaw on your body top to bottom, oh wait you already showed one flaw.

But it's a character flaw. Those don't matter to people who are only interested in appearance.

What a guy.............

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quote Originally posted by MidEngineManiac: I've been playing around with E-harmony and Lavalife, and was chatting with this one chick. 5-foot-2 and 210 pounds. I finally ended up telling her "sorry, I am not interested in screwing a fat one" She got all offended like and nasty and hostile............and LMAO....demanded that I take her out. I thought it was my choice who I date and/or be seen in public with with. Seems she has a diff-unt opinion. WTF is up with these aggressive fat cougars???

Dude, just what were you doing talking to her in the first place if you don't like "fat ones"???

Yeah, I'd say you were deliberatly trying to be cruel.

You might be a king, or a little street sweeper,
but sooner or latter you'll dance with the reaper. Joe