| quote | Originally posted by Jake_Dragon:
Life is complicated I've had a job offer and I'm taking it very seriously But it's going to mean going back to Indiana I don't know how I feel about that yet but I got a meeting on the 28th I like the idea of being close to my family My divorce was Final on the 16th It's time to move on and have definitely have my fill of Florida I don't know what's going to happen between me and Tiana we're talking again but I just don't know but the job offer is too good to let go it will give me an opportunity to be close to my family There is definitely nothing left here in Florida for me in fact complications have made it very clear that I shouldn't stay here I guess I'm just putting it down in writing thanks for listening |
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Can't agree with you on Florida. South Florida is the greatest place on Earth. The people who leave at lunchtime and never come back, after paying them for half the job up front... those people are assholes, but they are part of Florida's charm. Having to do everything yourself because you can't trust anyone at any shop or service because they'll rip you off and cheat you... that's part of the charm. Hard to explain... hahah.
But, if you can get a job, and be close with your family... then there's no question.
I'm not sure all the other stuff, but I read some of it and you really care for this little girl who's not your biological daughter. Best thing you can do is just be there for her if the mom will allow it. I don't know, never been there. But she needs to know what a father figure is. But at the same time, you have to worry about your life too. It's like when they tell you to put the oxygen mask on first, before putting on those around you. If you're totally messed up, then you're not a living example for Serenity. If you found someone else, started your own family... but still took the time to try to be a good person to that little girl, she would see what a normal family is like, and would want that for herself when older.
But yeah, I don't blame you for wanting to be with her again and wanting to take care of her... if the mom will let you.