Well now most people will think this person took advantage of your innocence. It is wrong to have relations with a child, and sorry but you are a child. I'm not saying it's your fault but the adult in this case should have known not to mess around with a Minor just because his girlfriend has a fling of her own or whatever happened. There are plenty of legal aged women to satisfy his urges with.
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Ithappens Member
Posts: 122 From: Cedar Rapids, Iowa Registered: Aug 2006
Well now most people will think this person took advantage of your innocence. It is wrong to have relations with a child, and sorry but you are a child. I'm not saying it's your fault but the adult in this case should have known not to mess around with a Minor just because his girlfriend has a fling of her own or whatever happened. There are plenty of legal aged women to satisfy his urges with.
I'm sorry but what you say about that issue particularly doesn't really matter all that much to me cause I know what the whole "minor" "adult" situation is and all. We talked about it and all but w/e it didn't matter. It happens, it's life. Things have changed a lot over the years and everyone's views have changed drastically but some peoples views haven't changed at all. With everything that is going on here in our society is changing everyone and how they used to be and on and on and on.....my point is, is that you know 3 1/2 yrs ya is kinda a big gap for my age ya, but when I get 18 it's not so much a big deal because I am considered "legal" then. But like I said everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
Oh and what happened was we were pretty much "together" and he mine as well have cheated on me even though we didn't have the "official" title we pretty much did, so in my eyes he cheated on me and I told him that and he shook his head and everything like he understood and all. It's a REALLY long story though. But ya.....
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Patrick Member
Posts: 36239 From: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada Registered: Apr 99
Things have changed a lot over the years and everyone's views have changed drastically but some peoples views haven't changed at all. With everything that is going on here in our society is changing everyone and how they used to be and on and on and on.....
Sometimes I wonder where we all came from when you consider that sex wasn't discovered until what.. about five years ago?
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Ithappens Member
Posts: 122 From: Cedar Rapids, Iowa Registered: Aug 2006
I'm sorry but what you say about that issue particularly doesn't really matter all that much to me cause I know what the whole "minor" "adult" situation is and all.
Oh really? I wonder if you will feel the same way if he gave your herpes or AIDS. I wonder if your parents would feel that way if they knew? I bet he may be looking at jail time then, not that he doesn't deserve it. Whatever.
You were used. And with an outlook like that, it's gonna happen 2u again, and again...
So you're 16 and he's 20? Mmm, statutory rape. Maybe he wasn't interested in dating you because he didn't feel like jail time? Maybe he just doesn't like being stalked on internet forums? Maybe he was looking for some one more mature?
Sorry, but if you insist on adult activites you should be an adult (and hopefully emotionally mature enough to handle the consequences).
So you're 16 and he's 20? Mmm, statutory rape. Maybe he wasn't interested in dating you because he didn't feel like jail time? Maybe he just doesn't like being stalked on internet forums? Maybe he was looking for some one more mature? -Amber
The age of consent is actually 16 here in WA.
I aint saying this guy isn't a scumbag, wonder how old the other gal is?.
Most likely not secure enough to go after women his own age.
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cliffw Member
Posts: 35766 From: Bandera, Texas, USA Registered: Jun 2003
Welcome to the forum. Hi. I am cliffw. I have five Fieros but I am not addicted to them. I can quit anytime I want. What time is it ? You seem to have a level head on your shoulders........just like we do. Do ya think ? Of course not. Where would the fun be . I think you are too good of a "person" for this "scum bag". Have you ever met a "REAL" man ? This forum is full of available real men. Does he have a Fiero or do you ?
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Ithappens Member
Posts: 122 From: Cedar Rapids, Iowa Registered: Aug 2006
He does. He's working on it right now and all. Last I knew he was having some complications with it and all....I don't know anymore cause I haven't talked to him since Sat.