OK, so today I replaced the 3rd gear pressure switch and checked all the wires inside the tranny for continuity, everything checked out OK.
I took the car for a drive and the TCC locked up great, my problem was a bad pressure switch and probably a bad solenoid too.
I would strongly recomend replacing both items when you are replacing the solenoid, learn from my mistake, I had to remove that side cover pan twice to get this thing working and I wish I had listened to the advice to do both first, the pressure switch is only another $5.00 from GM so it won't break the bank, plus I had to buy a second side cover gasket for $13.00. Thanks for all the help people.
terryk, I did check my solenoid when I pulled the side cover and the wires on it were correct, thanks for your input.