I had Firestone do a vehicle inspection, $12.95 (I usually have them do a pre-purchase insp). It's better to have an impartial opinion.
They noticed the left lower ball joint had some play. I can see grease fitting move, VERY slightly when pulling/pushing on the tire. They thought nothing of the slight top/bottom play in the front tires/wheels/bearings, the play is equal on both sides. They noticed no wheel weights on the outside (probably for cosmetics) and checked the balance. All tires needed some outside weight. MUCH smoother now but now a noticable pulsation when applying brakes but not steering wheel shake.
Also, the right inner CV joint has a lot of play but they couldn't here any clunking. I've never checked this on other V-6s so I don't know if the play is normal. The area is also very oily. Not sure where the oil/grease is coming from but the trans checks full when warm and down a little when cold. The other 3 CV boots are dry/clean. Going to degrease the area and watch it for leaks.